25/07/2026
Almost 7 years ago my whole world changed. Heartbreak, divorce, being cheated on.
All of it shapes how you see yourself. You feel unworthy, broken, ashamed. You wonder how on earth youβre going to get through it.
For a long time that changed how I saw myself. And for a while I set up camp there. But not for too long because I was done with letting someone elseβs behaviour decide how I felt about myself. And I was the only one who could do something about it.
So I learnt self-love and self-worth. Not the Instagram bubble bath kind. Real self-love. I learnt my value and I learnt that it had to come from me. Not from trying to find it in someone else who probably didnβt even value themselves.
Whatβs something heartbreak or a break up has taught you? π