05/08/2026
"Why does she get special treatment? If I asked for a later start, I'd be told no."
It's one of the most common scenarios I discuss during our managerial disability equality & inclusion training.
When an employee questions a colleague's reasonable accommodation, many managers instinctively try to explain the situation. However, even mentioning that the difference in working arrangements is because of a reasonable accommodation may disclose confidential personal information and could breach GDPR."
Explaining why someone has different working arrangements can reveal confidential personal information, including disability-related information. A manager should never disclose another employee's circumstances.
Instead, remember these four principles:
1. Protect confidentiality
Never disclose another employee's disability, medical condition or reasonable accommodation. Their personal information is theirs to share—not yours.
2. Acknowledge the concern without validating the assumption
You can recognise that someone feels frustrated without agreeing that the situation is unfair.
3. Reinforce that every request is considered individually.
Reasonable accommodations are based on individual circumstances. Different employees may require different supports to remove barriers and enable them to perform their role effectively.
4. Bring the conversation back to the employee in front of you.
Keep the discussion focused on their needs—not someone else's arrangements.
An appropriate response might be:
"I understand why it might seem unfair from your perspective. We consider requests on an individual basis, and sometimes different arrangements are appropriate. I can't discuss another colleague's circumstances, but if there's something you need to talk about regarding your own working arrangements, I'm happy to discuss that with you."
Managers don't need to justify another employee's accommodation.
They need to protect it.
When managers maintain confidentiality, they build trust and create a workplace where employees feel safe requesting the support they need.
How would you respond if this conversation came up in your workplace?
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