14/09/2026
Unpopular opinion...sorry Unpopular fact ⚠️
You may not want to hear this...but its truth.
Your child cannot regulate their nervous system, if you can't regulate yours.
Your child can't just be calm & quiet, if you can't.
If you have a child anyway on the neuro divergent spectrum you most definitely cannot farm out their behaviour externally for someone else to "fix" and expect magic to happen if you don't look at yourself...your own coping mechanisms when stressed, your own childhood, your over compensating behaviours, the environment you create for your child, your own patterns!
Equally you cannot hold space authentically for anyone...your child, your partner, groups you facilitate...if you cannot hold space for yourself and all that rises.
And most definitely you cannot hold space for groups in the name of "spiritual" to preach on what to do without ever integrating your own shadows, dying a death many times to your ego and being humbled by it all.
Yes very unpopular fact especially in a world obsessed with likes, followers, influencers...
Truth ♥️
Rebirthing breathwork brings me to my knees over and over and im blessed to be on this path!