09/06/2026
This mornings words comes from a deep embedded .
A loss that cannot be expressed .. just felt.
This loss concerns us all.
Offering us a wide range of different thoughts and emotions, some make us feel very lost, separated, tough, angry and guarded with a difficult undercurrent of deep sadness that succumbs us.
Somedays our grief encourages us to try something new, listen more, give time to something that can connect us in ways that lifts and us to do better. Be better. These are the days when we feel seen. Appreciated. , whole - days that feels good & right.
During those huge ‘in-between’ indifferences of darkness and light there’s a struggle happening in
our humanness of staying on the surface level within an identity that’s accepted where we can become so far removed from.
An overnight shift of perception to how we all live with ourselves & hold space 4our grief.
The worst grief are with people still living- it’s called an ambiguous loss, which we are mourning a relationship, a person’s cognitive state, or a connection that is no longer there, even though the person remains in your life.
Swimming in waters of uncertainty.
A phycological absence is very complex indeed, our loved one is physically with us but emotionally or cognitively unavailable- this kind of love is deep rooted amongst us all which can lace our days with guilt.
We then, through time create and build the energy of shame to take place for not understanding how to give in moments that truly feel like we are energetically being held at knifepoint - where words are unspoken, our heart bursting out of our chest holding our breath in fear of the loss that’s inevitable.
Wherever you are with your grief right now, it’s yours. It doesn’t belong to anybody else for nobody will understand your depth or the complexity of it.
It shapes a reality unseen, we’ve got to trust where it takes us. It’s beyond something or someone you are if or when they were here or there for you.
Long goodbyes give us time for words unspoken. Write them down, this helps us greatly.
My hope is that you have had or found somebody in your life that gave or gives you a sense of belonging.
You belong here 💞
And this concludes this mornings message..
Annie T 💞