31/08/2026
I remember the moment I fell in love with this place - Piazza Del Campo, Siena.
It was not an “oh my god this is amazing” kind of moment. Even though, look at it. It’s such an “oh my god” kind of place, obviously.
It was a calmer “I’m in love with this place” moment.
It was definitely a relaxing “I’m in love with this place” moment.
I sat down with my ice cream, looked around, and just felt it.
And if you’re thinking “well the place is relaxing, that’s why you felt relaxed” - NO.
This place had everything going on. Like pictured here - a whole contrada (district) celebrating its Palio di Siena (horse racing) win from the week before for the millionth time.
The winning district of this famous event basically owns the city and every corner we turned we’d hear drums somewhere in the distance. (More on that another time, I promise, that’s a whole separate story.)
It was fun though ngl!
Everything and more was going on in this Piazza.
People were wandering. Kids were playing. People were wandering after their kids that were playin. People lying down. People deep in conversation, laughing, drinking, eating. There was even a couple clearly on a date, which was so cute to watch.
Nothing about the actual scene was calm. It was full, and loud in places, and busy.
And THAT was the real beauty of this place. Everything was just existing.
All at once, all different, none of it competing with anything else.
Most people’s daily environments never give the nervous system that gap or space.
Think about your office spaces, phones, packed schedules, calendars..
You are relaxed when you have space - physical, mental and temporal.
What it actually had was space. Not physical space, well, yes physical space too, it’s a huge piazza, but I mean space in the sense that nobody was competing with anyone else for the mood of the place.
Everyone was just doing their own thing, at their own pace, completely unbothered by what anyone else was doing. Nobody’s peace depended on anyone else’s silence.
And appreciating this works as a redirect. Let me explain:
This is my favourite clarification for anyone that I work with (or not) who misunderstand gratitude practice an