19/06/2026
“His wife asked me because he was too embarrassed to.”
✨ Our highlight Q&A of this week (on stories every Thursday night) a woman messaged me asking about erectile dysfunction medication for her husband. This week is also Men’s Health Week. This topic is considered “embarrassing” and so not discussed as openly as it should be.
Partners asking this question is a lot more common than you might think.
👉Many men find it difficult to talk about erectile dysfunction, even with their partner, doctor or pharmacist. Thankfully we have very effective medicines available to enjoy and continue intimacy on your terms. This doesn’t just affect the man but their partner and relationship too 💚
But here’s what many people don’t realise.
Erectile dysfunction isn’t always “just erectile dysfunction.”
It can sometimes be linked to:
✔ Diabetes
✔ High blood pressure
✔ High cholesterol
✔ Smoking
✔ Stress and anxiety
✔ Side effects of medicines
✔ Heart disease
In some men, erectile dysfunction can even be an early warning sign that something else needs attention. It’s not just “getting old” as I hear every week in the pharmacy.
👉That’s why pharmacists don’t just hand over treatment and send you on your way.
We ask questions. We look at the bigger picture.
Sometimes we recommend a GP review before treatment is supplied.
If you’re the partner who has been gently encouraging someone to seek help, this is your reminder that these conversations really matter🙏
To the men reading this. You’re definitely not the first person to ask, and you certainly won’t be the last.
❤️ Share this with someone who needs the reminder that asking for help is a strength, not a weakness. Life is for living to the full. You’re just one chat in a private consultation room away from accessing these medications or the care you need. You’ve nothing to lose.
I hope this helps?
Tom the Pharmacist 🧑⚕️.
⚠️Educational content. Always consult your doctor or pharmacist for advice. .