Frances Kelleher Coaching

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If you have been betrayed, hurt, deceived or lied to in the worst way possible, please still trust.That is on the other ...
18/06/2026

If you have been betrayed, hurt, deceived or lied to in the worst way possible, please still trust.

That is on the other person who choose to do the wrong thing. It has nothing to do with you and your value. You cannot control other people’s choices.

Just because someone does not value you does not mean you have no value.
Read that a loud!

Do not let anyone have control over your life and your trust. You live free and high. That is what you were born to do.

It is safe to trust people.

Do not let anyone take your trust.

DM me if you need help trusting again and let’s get living.

If you are not getting dates on the apps it could be a few things but here are the main ones it could be-Your pictures a...
17/06/2026

If you are not getting dates on the apps it could be a few things but here are the main ones it could be-

Your pictures are not right. The pictures are 90% of the profile. They have to be good.

The next thing is that you are not reaching out consistently to people or starting conversations with them.

It could be that you do not know how to build conversation through conversation which most people don’t.

All of these things we cover in detail in my Find the 1 with 3 method (confidence, conversation, connection)

DM me if you want to start getting quality dates from the apps.

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Self confidence is everything in life really. If you break it down , there are confident people and there are unconfiden...
16/06/2026

Self confidence is everything in life really. If you break it down , there are confident people and there are unconfident people.

You need to have confidence in yourself even when nobody else has. This is the secret. People think they will have confidence and self belief when other people have it in them but it is actually the opposite.

You have to follow your own voice in your head and ignore all the outside noise.

If you want to get more confident do three things a day that help you to get that confidence. Remember that confidence is built on accomplishment. Read that again!

For example, you could read 3 pages of a dating book per day, make yourself start one conversation a day and aim to build on that or reach out to two people per day on the dating apps.

Just keep taking small steps to move forward. They end up adding up!

What are you going to do today to start living your best life?
Let me know in the comments.

In anything in life 80% of it is mindset.It is the same with dating. Only 20% is mechanics…how are you working on your m...
15/06/2026

In anything in life 80% of it is mindset.
It is the same with dating.
Only 20% is mechanics…how are you working on your mindset?

Let e know in the comments.

DM me if you want the fast track to having the right mindset for dating and life.

You don’t have a “the dating apps don’t work" issueYou have a “messaging” issue.Once you solve your messaging issue, you...
14/06/2026

You don’t have a “the dating apps don’t work" issue

You have a “messaging” issue.

Once you solve your messaging issue, you will end up connecting to quality men from the apps you are using currently & you will meet men that want commitment too immediately.

DM me if you want help now in your dating life and on the apps.

If you really are fed up with your current response on the dating apps, you can change it by simply tweaking who you are...
13/06/2026

If you really are fed up with your current response on the dating apps, you can change it by simply tweaking who you are speaking to & completing pivoting how you are speaking to them. This will not only double the amount of quality people you speak to but might even get you a date in a few messages!

This is done in 2 parts;

Choosing & sticking to who your dream person really is and ONLY speaking to them.

Your ideal date is on the apps NOW but they are not seeing you, they are NOT getting you because you are NOT talking directly to them.

You are talking to ALL of the men on there which is DILUTING your messaging and watering it down, losing its potency & making you connections you are just not happy with .

Stop trying to “convince” & switch to your POWER of feminine energy. Stop convincing people with the same ding d**g messages and not being assertive. That’s desperate energy and it does not build attraction. You think you have to do that to get men to move…They are ALREADY MOVING.

A serious man doesn’t need lots of messages and convincing. He is MOVING RIGHT NOW.

When you decide who you want to speak to on the apps, speak to them ONLY, & stop convincing in your messaging. Then your conversations will become easier and less drawn out. You will begin to get dates faster and from serious men that want commitment like you, because you are giving the exact solution they need and they need it now.

This is the work I do in my VIP close proximity spaces. This is why Only ONE session with me moves my clients results to go crazy! And that is by knowing how to speak to men on the apps. I have clients that met the one after working with me for only 5 weeks.

This is also the METHOD I am teaching in “This is how you find the right man”

If you are ready to meet more quality men than the previous 3 months …
Message me for the details.

If you could change one thing in dating what would it be?Let me know in the comments…
12/06/2026

If you could change one thing in dating what would it be?

Let me know in the comments…

Opportunities are not called opportunities for nothing.This is why you have to be prepared for them. People think that p...
11/06/2026

Opportunities are not called opportunities for nothing.

This is why you have to be prepared for them. People think that people that are ready for things to happen are just lucky. They can be but they are also determined not to miss the chance that they have been preparing for, hoping for and working towards.

Be ready for when that girl or guy shows up. Be prepared to start conversations. Get prepared for when someone starts conversations with you.

Be ready.

If you want help with creating opportunities in your dating life book DM me.

58% of all human communication is non verbal. Think about how big that number is for a minute.We need to work on our vib...
10/06/2026

58% of all human communication is non verbal. Think about how big that number is for a minute.

We need to work on our vibe and how we come across in dating as much as our image because it leaves a lasting first impression.

Men love happy women so practice being happy all of the time. You never know when could bump into Mr. Right so be ready!

An easy way to do this is to get grateful. It is of the quickest ways to get what you desire into your life. Even Gisele Bundchen, the highest top paid model for a decade and the ex of Leonardo Di Caprio said this.

When you are happy you attract happy people. Your life gets better in everyway so it is a win win!

DM me if you want to start living your best life now!

Comment in the comments and I will give you some quick wins to help you.
09/06/2026

Comment in the comments and I will give you some quick wins to help you.

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