12/08/2026
You don’t attract the wrong people. You attract people who match what you tolerate. 👀
If you keep attracting:
• emotionally unavailable people
• people who only come when it’s convenient
• people who give mixed signals
• people who take more than they give
Maybe the pattern isn’t “Why do I attract these people?”
Maybe it’s “Why do I keep giving access to people who show me they’re not right for me?”
Your standards don’t just decide who you attract.
They decide who gets to stay.
Raise the standard.
Trust the red flags.
Stop confusing chemistry with compatibility. 🖤
Save this for the next time you’re tempted to ignore what you already know.
