02/05/2026
“She is always confused…”
That’s how her mother introduced her as she approached Soul Urjaa Counselling Centre by Multiversity of Success.
A young girl.
Bright eyes. Curious mind.
Always excited about everything new she saw.
But there was one concern.
She was constantly drawn to “big things” in life…
things beyond her current reality.
And when she couldn’t understand them…
she felt confused.
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Her mother was worried.
“Can you help her come out of this confusion?” she asked.
—
I observed the girl for a while.
Her eyes didn’t show confusion.
They showed intensity.
Curiosity.
Excitement.
And a mind trying to process too much at once.
—
So I told her:
“You’re not confused…
You’re overwhelmed.”
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“Too many thoughts.
Too many emotions.
Too many expectations.”
—
She looked at me… still unsure.
So I continued:
“Clarity doesn’t come from thinking more.
It comes from slowing down.”
—
Then I gently asked her,
“Do you feel excited when you see things
you haven’t experienced yet?”
She nodded.
—
“And do you sometimes feel uncomfortable…
because your current reality doesn’t match those dreams?”
She lowered her eyes.
That silence… was her answer.
—
So I told her something she needed to hear:
“You don’t need to feel guilty for dreaming big.”
“You don’t need to feel confused.”
“You don’t need to feel less.”
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“You need to do just three things:
• Give yourself space
• Stay grounded in reality
• Create a plan for your dreams”
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“Because what you are feeling…
is not confusion.
It is the beginning of vision.”
—
That moment changed something.
She smiled.
Her mother relaxed.
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That was 15 years ago.
Today…
That “confused” little girl
is a successful entrepreneur.
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Sometimes what we label as confusion…
is actually unchannelled potential.
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If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed like this…
pause and ask yourself:
“Am I confused…
or am I trying to process a bigger vision?”
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If this resonates,
you can message me “HEAL”
I’ll guide you.
