16/06/2026
🚨🚨 DADS, she wants a partner not an assistant she needs to assign tasks to.
YES teamwork requires communication. However, if you learn the routines, sync calendars, read the room, you only then hsve to ask specific questions for information you're truly unable to find on your own.
Because that mental load is heavy and decision fatigue is real.
If she feeds the baby at X time, be ready to burp and change baby after. If there's school tomorrow, make sure the bookbags are packed. Notice there's an appointment on the calendar? Pack the diaper bag. Baby crawling? Do the baby proofing without being asked or reminded.
Don't wait to be asked to parent. Don't leave her to request help for the home. Jump in and be a partner.