11/05/2026
If you are a lady and you are 27 years old, when you date a guy for 3 years, you will be 30.
Now imagine after those 3 years, the guy wakes up and says he cannot marry you.
He has wasted your time, and you cannot recover it.
I am not saying you should not date a guy for 3 years or be patient, but before you do that, there are things you should check.
Here are 10 signs that the man you are dating is a time waster:
1. He has never introduced you to his family after a reasonable amount of time.
2. He avoids every conversation about the future.
3. He always has a reason why now is not the right time to commit — and the reasons never end.
4. He keeps the relationship a secret on social media and in public.
5. He only shows up when he needs something from you.
6. He has been dating you for over two years with zero talk of marriage.
7. He disappears for days without explanation and returns like nothing happened.
8. He makes you feel lucky to have him instead of the other way around.
9. He has broken up with you and come back more than once.
10. Your instinct has been telling you something is wrong for a long time, and you keep ignoring it.
If you see these signs, do not manage it. Do not pray it away. Do not give it one more year.
Run.
Your time is your most valuable asset and no man is worth losing it over.
Las las, we all go dey alright.
I I MOSES