25/03/2025
"Dear Ladies, Do You Know That Men Hardly Forget Stories You Told Them About S£X With Your Ex?
I mean stories of the naughty things you did before you met us are stuck in our subconscious mind and sometimes, men remember them even while you are laying on our chest. Most men here will relate.
Most times , your man’s mood would suddenly change - not because of what you did in the present but because of the story you told him about your past. Men are Colonisers. Most of us men believe we can belong to every woman but we will k1ll if our woman belongs to another person. Whether this is by nature or nurture, it is a crazy reality.
We can tell you our sexual escapades but the moment you tell us about yours, we will suffer heart attack 😂. Honestly, I am not innocent myself.
But here’s my message to every man who feels this way:
When those thoughts of her past invade your mind…when you picture her being devoured by her ex and you feel that wave of jealousy. Just take a deep breath and remember that you too have a shameful past. Even if you had a clean past like a pope, remember that you are not perfect. You have made mistakes. But you are not defined by those mistakes. Extend the same grace to her past. Forgive it and consciously reprogram your mind to see her as the virgin you would have preferred to be.
And for women who love to overshare: keep some information to yourself. It will bite you later. Even when we ask for details, just say that you are focused on the present and not the past. A man told me that he jokingly asked his wife about her ex’s size 15 years ago when they met. She innocently told him that her ex had a bigger rod. According to the man, that image has never left his mind. And in the past 15 years, he always believed that she still wants her ex’s thing.
These are UNSPOKEN REALITIES but they are stuck in the minds of millions. You won’t read this type anywhere but we deal with such unspoken realities on this platform with the intention of sanitising the minds of millions at the basic level and without being judgmental."
©Charles Awuzie