19/05/2021
Toddler bedtime stalling tactics... Read on how to make bedtimes easy!
Toddlers are busy little people. Watching them develop into talkative, mobile, creative and independent people is a fascinating time. You also see a lot of boundary-testing, which can be very visible at BEDTIME!!!
Sometimes your little one gets three or four stories a night, sometimes five, and then they usually ask for a glass of milk that theyâll only drink a few sips of, then they want to say goodnight in a very specific, drawn-out way. You know how it
Toddlers love to test boundaries, and they know that the one thing you want from them at bedtime is for them to go to sleep, so theyâll use it. Itâs their way of seeing where your boundaries lie and how much authority they actually have.
So one night they ask for a glass of milk, and the parents think, âWhatâs the harm?â The next night, they ask for a glass of milk and an extra story. A week later, they want a glass of milk, an extra story, and three hugs and two goodnight kisses.
Little by little, these crazy bedtime routines get established, all according to what the toddler wants.
So thereâs a simple, TWO step solution to this issue.
ESTABLISH A SHORT BEDTIME ROUTINE
NEVER DIVIATE FROM IT!
Thatâs it. Itâs that simple. I wonât kid you, sticking to the rules can be a challenge, because theyâre going to ask, test and complain, but if you stick to your guns, theyâll understand sooner rather than later that the bedtime routine is not up for debate.
This benefits both of you.Toddlers take a great amount of comfort in knowing that you, the parent, are firmly in charge and are confident in your decisions. It gives them a sense of security. If you start allowing them to make the decisions, they actually start to feel like theyâre in charge, and that feeling that parents know what they are doing fades. A predictable routine also prepares the body for a good night's sleep! So good luck!
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