09/08/2026
We asked, she delivered. ๐
Our assistant Britt on why no question is too small, being kind to yourself, and what it really means to be there from the very beginning.
๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฑ๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ด๐ป๐ฎ๐ป๐ฐ๐ ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฎ๐ณ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฏ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐ต?
No matter how much you read or prepare, parenthood is something you can only truly learn by living it. And that's okay. The experience itself is the teacher.
๐๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ ๐ด๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ด๐ป๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ ๐๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ?
Be kind to yourself. Listen to your body. There is no perfect pregnancy, birth or postpartum period. Trust that you, as a parent, know best what you and your baby need. And don't be afraid to ask for help.
๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐พ๐๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ ๐ฎ๐น๐บ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฒ?
Behind almost every call or visit, there's the same question underneath it all: is this normal? No question is strange or silly. I want every pregnant woman and every partner to feel completely free to ask or discuss anything. That matters to me.
๐ช๐ต๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ ๐๐ผ ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐ณ๐๐น ๐๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐?
I'm often the very first person a family speaks to at the start of their pregnancy. Getting to follow that journey from the sidelines, one of the most extraordinary experiences of someone's life, is something I never take for granted. A listening ear, a reassuring answer, or simply taking a moment for someone, that can make all the difference. That's what makes this work so valuable to me.
โ Britt, assistant at ELLE