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20/10/2026

Have you ever made yourself smaller before anyone even asked you to?

You didn’t share that idea because you thought people might laugh.

You didn’t wear that outfit because you worried about being judged.

You didn’t speak up because you didn’t want to seem difficult.

You didn’t go after that opportunity because you convinced yourself you weren’t ready.

And maybe, without even realising it, you’ve been saying NO to yourself to avoid hearing it from someone else.

That’s self-rejection.

You’re trying to protect yourself from a rejection that hasn’t even happened.

But in doing so, you might be rejecting opportunities, experiences, relationships and versions of yourself that you haven’t even had the chance to meet.

Not everyone will understand you. Not everyone will like you. And that’s okay.

But please don’t let the fear of someone else’s opinion become the reason you abandon yourself.

You don’t need everyone’s approval to give yourself permission to try.

Your reminder today: Let people meet the real you. Let life surprise you. Stop rejecting yourself on someone else’s behalf.

💛 Have you ever held yourself back because you were afraid of what people might think?
Tell me in the comments. Let’s make this a safe space for honest conversations.

19/10/2026

We paused the workday to breathe. 🫁

For Mental Health Awareness Week, I hosted a breathwork session for teams at AMP New Zealand , and the room went from busy to calm in minutes.

Slow breath in, longer breath out. Try it right now. 🤍

A very special “Thank you” to our incredible sponsors for the goodie bags: fu/nis EMS training | 20min full-body strength training Daeli Hydration Elta Ego™ 🍹 Alcohol-Free Adaptogenic Cocktails Two Dudes | Natural Men’s Grooming Products

It’s so special when people feel appreciated and seen & when they make time for their own self care, rest & recovery.

What’s your go-to reset on a stressful day? 👇

14/10/2026

Belonging doesn’t start when someone invites you in.
It starts when you let yourself be seen. 🤍

When you accept yourself, you walk into rooms differently.
You listen differently. You make space for others without even trying, and people feel at home around you.

This Mental Health Awareness Week, a small reflection: where do you feel most like yourself, and who makes you feel safe being you? (It does it have to be a person)

Save this for a day you need the reminder. 🔖

Follow for more reflections, and to learn to create that safe space within.

12/10/2026

Creating belonging outside vs. creating belonging within. Which one do you find harder? 🫶

Belonging doesn’t have to be big or loud. 🤍Sometimes it’s a “thinking of you” text, or someone noticing you’ve gone quie...
11/10/2026

Belonging doesn’t have to be big or loud. 🤍

Sometimes it’s a “thinking of you” text, or someone noticing you’ve gone quiet and checking in. And sometimes the hardest place to find it is within ourselves, in seeing ourselves as enough.

This Mental Health Awareness Week (12-18 Oct), we’re talking about belonging: how it starts with the way we speak to ourselves, and how it grows into the people and communities we make room for.

At The Mind Solace, belonging is at the heart of everything we do. We’re here to create a safe space for all, where everyone feels seen, welcome and like they belong.

💬 Which one do you need this week? Tell us in the comments, or send this to someone who has made you feel like you belong.

09/10/2026

You are living the life you once dreamed of...

and in the future, you'll catch yourself in many similar moments, realising you've made it further than you ever imagined.

And even if your confidence hash't caught up with your growth just yet, walk in anyway.

You don't have to feel ready to be worthy. You don't have to believe it every day to deserve it.

Let yourself be in the room before you fully believe you belong there 💛

Burnout isn't a personal failing.It's often what happens when we carry too much, alone.This October is Mental Health Awa...
04/10/2026

Burnout isn't a personal failing.
It's often what happens when we carry too much, alone.

This October is Mental Health Awareness Week (12-18 Oct).
The theme is belonging.
I love it, because it's what The Mind Solace is built on.

We create safe spaces where people feel seen and heard.
Safe enough to do the deeper, inner work on themselves.

In workplaces and communities, we make room to de-stress, learn and connect.
But more than anything, to belong.

Because we're human.
Feeling safe enough to be yourself is a basic need, not a bonus.

Belonging isn't a nice-to-have.
It's how we thrive.

Come along. These two are open to everyone:

20 Oct: Confident Content Creation
With Empower Her Community - Global Community for Women in Business , for all the women in business.
It doesn't matter where you are in your journey.
You are warmly welcome 🫶

27 Oct: Focus Reset, Breathwork Edition
With Flex at Mosaic , for when corporate life has become too busy and heavy.
Come and de-stress, and catch your breath.

Comment "BELONG" and I'll send you the ticket link to reserve your spot.
Tell me which one you're joining us for in the comments 👇

04/10/2026

3 things my clients repeat in my coaching room 🤍

1. I will not stress about things I can’t control.
2. I will not rush what’s taking longer than expected.
3. Everything will unfold in its own timing. And I accept that.

They don’t start here. They get here.

Say it with them. Out loud if you can.

💬 Which one are you working on? Tell me in the comments.
🔖 Save this for the days you need to repeat it.
📤 Send it to someone who needs this.

Follow for more from my coaching room.

Clients don’t only pay for my expertise. They also pay for my nervous system. 🤍Nobody told me that before I became a lif...
29/09/2026

Clients don’t only pay for my expertise. They also pay for my nervous system. 🤍

Nobody told me that before I became a life coach.
Here are 3 things I wish I’d known 👇

01 Some days are emotionally draining. We hold a lot of raw, real-life stuff, so showing up fully isn’t optional. You can’t help others without helping yourself FIRST 🩵

02 Most people don’t really understand what life coaching is, and there’s a lot of confusing information out there. Chat with a few coaches. Credentials matter, and so does lived experience. That initial conversation with give you all the clarity you need if the journey or the Coach is the right fit for you.

03 The outcome sits heavily with the client. My job is to find the best way to support you, not to do the work for you. The heavy lifting is done by the client, but that’s also where the growth is.

💛 Save this for the day you’re choosing a coach, and send it to someone who’s curious about coaching.

Not sure if coaching is right for you?

Book a complimentary Clarity Call, link in bio.

24/09/2026

You can’t build a healthy relationship with anything outside of you while you’re still at war with everything inside of you.

Heal. Grow. Build the love within yourself that you keep searching for out there.

You are not an unfinished project waiting for someone to complete you.

You are a masterpiece who was born to live her best, full life.

Tag a woman who needs to hear this today. Or one who already healed and would nod at every word.

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