27/08/2026
š±The purity of our love for our children lies in its unconditionalityā¦. With this being exactly what our children need to grow and blossom in the safe container of our love.
If you werenāt raised in the experience of unconditional love (e.g. you had narcissistic or emotionally immature parents) having your own babies is likely to bring up layers of pain and confusion⦠these precious souls are so easy to love and yet at times so triggering.
š¢ Your inner child may even be screaming and stamping her feet⦠why wasnāt I so easy to love, whatās wrong with me?! No fair!
Perhaps youāre concerned that youāll pass on your developmental trauma, pain or dysfunctional patterns to your kids.
šŖThe fact that youāre considering this and working towards a brighter future for your babes suggests youāre already doing a pretty great job⦠honest connection and the desire to do better beat the impossible ideal of perfection any day.
You are unconditionally loved and worthy and so are your children.š
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