12/04/2023
To the man who will happen to read this:
You may be admiring someone right now.
And have the desire to make that known to her. So here's my letter to you.
Ladies aren't trial and error.
So, don't pursue her if you are not sure about her yet. Because whenever she says yes, she'll take that "yes" as a commitment not just to you but to God also. She is looking forward to your relationship with the goal of marriage.
If you are not yet sure of her, do not awaken love until the time is right when you're ready.
-ready not only for the bed of roses but also for the thorny ones.
She doesn't want to cry for the same reason again. She doesn't like the "Am I not enough?" "Is there something wrong with me?" kind of moment again. She doesn't like the process of moving on because you weren't sure of her. She's been there already. She had enough of that.
If you think what you feel is temporary, perhaps it's okay to just admire her from afar rather than you being the reason why she had a lot of what if's and overthinking at night.
Don't show actions that confuses her.
Avoid saying anything that will awaken her love and cause her to tear down the walls she has been building for a long time in order to let you in.
If she's not the one you've seen to be with you through ups and downs,
If you don't see her serving Jesus alongside you in the future,
Then please don't ruin the peaceful life of a woman if you're not sure of her being with you in the future.
If you're not ready to be one of God's instruments to show her she's loved, she doesn't need to be insecure, and she's worth it, then please guard your words and your actions. Because while you do that, she'll do the same.
✍️: Reightzhyl Leera Maca Azarcon
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