Oily Momma

🧡 Oilymomma & Beyond
👩‍👧‍👦 Mom of 3 💪Fitness enthusiast
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🌍 Inspiring women to thrive at every age
📍 Philippines
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28/07/2026

🧡My mother was always saving beautiful things for a special occasion.

Maybe we inherited that habit from our mothers, the good towels, the expensive perfume, the dress that’s “too nice” for an ordinary day.

But what if being here today is already special enough?

What have you been saving? Use it this week. 🧡

☕ Until next,

Macar 🧡

🧡 I used to think that by my 40s, I’d have everything figured out.Cute. 😂Instead, I learned that healing can be messy. T...
26/07/2026

🧡 I used to think that by my 40s, I’d have everything figured out.

Cute. 😂

Instead, I learned that healing can be messy. That you can love people and still outgrow them. That tiny wins deserve to be celebrated, and making yourself smaller has never made the right people love you more.

Maybe we’re not supposed to have everything figured out.

Maybe we’re just supposed to keep becoming, more honest, more joyful and more ourselves.

Which one did you need to hear today? 🧡

🧡Macar

21/07/2026

🧡5 things I wish I knew sooner:

Stop apologizing.
Speak kindly to yourself.
Celebrate your wins.
Stand tall.
Try anyway.

You don’t need permission to become the woman you were always meant to be. 🧡
Which one are you learning right now?

18/07/2026

🧡 Years ago, I would've spent more on things that looked expensive than on things that made my everyday life better.

Now, I'd rather invest in shoes that let me walk comfortably, skincare that makes me feel confident, and habits that help me stay healthy.

Funny how your definition of "worth it" changes as you get older.
What's one purchase you've never regretted? 🧡

15/07/2026

You don't have to be perfect.

You don't need the perfect body.
The perfect routine.
Or the perfect motivation.

You just have to keep showing up.

Some days you'll feel strong.
Some days you'll only do the minimum.

Both still count.

Because consistency changes you in ways perfection never will. 🤍

If you're becoming the woman you've always hoped to be... come back tomorrow. We'll figure it out together. 🧡

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🧡 There was a season when I believed that being a good mother meant saying yes to everyone except myself.If I was tired,...
14/07/2026

🧡 There was a season when I believed that being a good mother meant saying yes to everyone except myself.

If I was tired, I pushed through.
If I wanted to rest, I felt guilty.
If I wanted time alone, I wondered if I was being selfish.

Somewhere along the way, I confused self-sacrifice with love.

But motherhood has been teaching me something different.

As my children grew older, I realized they weren't keeping score of how exhausted I was.

They noticed how I spoke to myself.
They noticed whether I took care of my health.
They noticed if I laughed.
They noticed whether I lived with joy or simply survived each day.

It made me ask myself:

"What kind of woman do I hope my daughter becomes?"
"What kind of partner do I hope my sons choose someday?"

The answer wasn't someone who disappears for everyone else.

The answer was someone kind.
Someone healthy.
Someone who has boundaries.
Someone who keeps growing.

I've learned that taking care of yourself isn't taking love away from your family.

It's showing them what love should look like.

If no one has told you this today...

You are allowed to become the woman you've always hoped to be, even while being an incredible mom.

🧡 What's one thing you've started doing for yourself this year? I'd genuinely love to read it.

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13/07/2026

🧡You spend years believing you're the one raising them.

Then one day, you realize they've been quietly shaping you into a more patient, softer, and wiser version of yourself.

They teach you to let go. To apologize. To laugh again. To love without keeping score.

Maybe motherhood was never just about raising children. Maybe it was also about becoming the woman you were always meant to be.

🧡 If you're becoming the woman you've always hoped to be... come back tomorrow.

We'll figure it out together.

13/07/2026

Life gets lighter when you stop carrying things that were never meant for you. 🤍

I've learned that peace is worth protecting. Not every opinion deserves a response. Not every battle deserves your energy.

Choose the people who cheer for you, the moments that fill your heart, and the life that feels true to you.

We're not here to collect stress, we're here to collect memories, laughter, and the courage to become the women we're meant to be.

Here's your reminder today: protect your peace. Everything else can wait. ☕🧡

If you're becoming the woman you've always hoped to be... come back tomorrow. We'll figure it out together.

ProtectYourPeace LifeInYour40s FilipinaCreator BecomingHer LiveFully 🧡

12/07/2026

A gentle reminder:

You don't have to wait until everything is perfect to feel grateful.

Sometimes the biggest blessing is realizing you already have what you once prayed for.

What's one beautiful thing about today? 🧡

10/07/2026

🧡 You don't have to be perfect.

You just have to keep showing up.

Some days you'll feel strong.
Some days you'll feel tired.
Some days you'll wonder if it's even making a difference.

Go anyway.

Because consistency has a way of changing you long before you notice it.

Here's to becoming a little stronger, one ride at a time. 🧡

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