01/06/2026
Mothers behind bars #7
We can't show their faces but we want the world to hear them and know their thoughts and aspirations. Here's another from them (translated from Tagalog to English)
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When Father God grants me my freedom
I promise I won't waste any more time and chance to be with my child and family. I will put my life in order so I won't be separated from them again. I will fix my life and really, really make it up to them. I miss you all and I hope that you are doing well. I love my family ❤️❤️❤️. "
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Besides wanting their voices to resonate behind bars, we also wanted to prepare them for reintegration. Last month, we asked them what they'd do first the moment they get out of the "bakasyunan" (vacation place, a gentler word they use in place of "prison"). This time, we went a bit bigger: their immediate life goals.
When you write down your goals, you store information outside of the brain, something that your eyes can easily see, something that reminds you and reinforces your commitment to the goal, and in turn further engrains it to your memory.
Dominican University in California paychology professor Dr. Gail Mattews' study involving participants from various backgrounds, (e.g., entrepreneurs, educators, healthcare professionals, artists, lawyers, bankers) found that those who wrote down their goals and dreams regularly achieved them at a significantly higher level than those who didn’t. By simply writing down their aspirations, participants became 42% more likely to realize their dreams.
Thanks to the San Mateo Gender and Development Office for allowing this activity, most especially to their ever dedicated staff, Princess supported by Ja, for this great idea, and of course to the local taxpayers for the resources that made it happen!
UPM Communications Paper (16 Apr 2024). https://www.upmpaper.com/knowledge-inspiration/blog-stories/articles/2024/the-power-of-putting-pen-to-paper/