24/06/2026
Most people think they need to heal the relationship.
But what if the relationship is simply showing you what needs healing within you? 🥹
She came to me at a time when their relationship was already falling apart.
Sige na lang ug away. Push and pull.
Break up, balik. Love each other, then hurt each other.
The kind of relationship people would easily label as “toxic.”
But I remember what she told me:
“Ms. Feb, I want to heal and help myself. I want to choose myself. Para sad dili ko mahimung toxic na tao. Bisan pa man gani ug dili na ni ma-save amung relationship, dili nako gusto na dalhon pa nako ni sa sunod.”
And honestly? That was one of the bravest things I’ve ever heard.
Kay dali ra kaau i-blame ang uban nga tao.
Pero lahi ra jud nang tao nga willing mutan-aw sa iyang kaugalingon ug muingon…
“Ako sad, naa koy kinahanglan usbon.”
Naa ba xa’y kwarta atu nga time para mag-heal?
Wala. Pero nangita xa’g paagi.
Nibyahe. Nagpa-session.Nagpa-BARS.
Nagpa-BODY PROCESS. Nagpa-facilitate.
Nagpa-clearings. Niapil sa mga Abundance Classes.
Session after session after session.
And slowly…
Nausab iyang perspective, iyang energy, iyang relationship with herself.
she indeed, found herself loving herself so much and so deeply.
Kay usahai, dili man diay ang relationship ang unang kinahanglan ma-heal.
Ikaw.
And what I love about healing is this:
The more we heal, the more we receive.
After her third session, nag-message xa.
“Mam, kalit lang jud ning-uli xa. And karon, grabeh na jud iyang pag-pursue nako nga nagpalaban pa xa ky mama. ningbutho lang xa kalit samua from States.”
And then something even more beautiful happened.
Nagpa-BARS sila pareho.
Nagpa-Body Processes.
Nagpa-clearings.
Nagpa-facilitate.
And karun?
Both of them enrolled in an Access BARS Class for them to take care of each other. i-BARS nalang daw nila ang isa’t-isa just to heal and save their relationship.🥹😭
Goosebumps. sooo beautiful noh?🥹❤️
Sometimes, the heaven is not asking you to fight harder for the relationship.
Sometimes, it’s asking you to fight for yourself.
Because when you heal, everybody around you gets invited to heal too.
And if they choose it, beautiful.
If they don’t, beautiful gihapon.
Because at the end of the day, the greatest love story you’ll ever have is the one where you finally stopped abandoning yourself and started choosing you. ❤️✨
How does it get any better than this? 🪽🥹✨
Makahappy noh? This is what I love about what I do. 🥹✨
I got to witness people choosing themselves again.
I see you. I love you. I celebrate me and you. ❤️
Bars Beyond Limits