07/11/2025
NEVER TRUST A MAN WHO gets upset over your reactions to his actions! You got mad because of what he did, and now he's mad because you reacted. Then he tries to gaslight you by saying you're always arguing or creating negativity. No, that's MANIPULATION. That's narcissistic behavior. You don't get to hurt people and then play the VICTIM when they call you out. This behavior is a classic tactic used to shift the focus away from their own wrongdoing and onto your response.
When someone tries to make you feel guilty for having feelings or reacting to their hurtful behavior, it's a red flag. It shows that they're more concerned with avoiding accountability than with understanding and validating your emotions. In a healthy relationship, both partners should take responsibility for their actions and work together to resolve conflicts in a respectful and empathetic manner.