KirbyAmour

29/04/2026

To tell you the truth I am drowning a little right now. So many of the mothers I support are struggling - my todo list is a mile long to share and try to help online me and off but my first finals week is upon me with my last classes of my first semester so I just can’t keep up. It’s hard to feel you can’t do it all. With defining my ministry work this first semester I’ve really had to think deep and hard about the WHYs the HOWs and the FUTURE of who I am becoming in what I show up with and provide for the world. My ministry isn’t light and fun, I am diving deep into domestic violence, SA, child protection and breaking down the harmful systems from the inside out. You have a choice when doing this work let it weigh you down to the point you aren’t as affective as you can be or do your very best and keep your whimsy in the process. We are so binary as humans - but the fact remains you CAN do this deep and difficult work while keeping my joy for the special things in you life and for me it’s setting the example to the girls how we show up in a world set out on silencing and taking our joy. There were points in this last five years when I was suicidal because of the things happening to us and the cutting moral injury forced on us in Portugal and at those points I had to make a choice - will I let the darkness win or show up with light that will shine hope for my babies and maybe for others. I obviously chose the light and am so thankful I did now we are so far into our recovery and rebuilding after abuse. I just hope now through my ministry no woman will feel alone on their journey of recovery. So much more to come (when I catch up 😅)

14/04/2026

Day 1 of dancing until Mayor Mamdani meets with survivors.

When I was being tortured by domestic violence and nearly lost my life, dancing online gave me hope. It gave me somewhere to put my pain. It helped keep me alive.

Now I’m dancing for others.

I launched the NYC Family Court Safety & Equity Pilot to push for a survivor-led meeting with Mayor Mamdani and City Hall, because survivors deserve to be heard, and New York City has the chance to lead real change.

Each post in this series will lift up one survivor: who they are, what happened, and how we can help them right now. This is about community. It is about showing up for each other while pushing this project forward.

Today, that survivor is me.

If you want to help today:
Share this video
Tag Mayor Mamdani
Visit familycourtnyc.lovable.app

Tomorrow I’ll begin sharing other survivors’ stories. If you want me to tell your Family Court story, DM me.

We keep going until they listen. Cause WE are the change we want to see in this world ❤️🙏

14/04/2026

Mayor Mamdani — you’ve done a lot for New York City in your first 100 days. But there’s another thing we need to do.

I’m Kirby Amour — a mother, advocate, and minister in training — and I’m asking New York City to treat Family Court harm like the public safety issue it is.

When survivors and children are harmed by Family Court and court-connected failures, that harm does not stay in the courtroom. It spills into schools, shelters, child welfare, mental health strain, victim services, and public trust.

That’s why I created the NYC Family Court Safety & Equity Pilot — a survivor-led public proposal asking City Hall to support a six-month pilot design phase focused on safety, support, pattern reporting, and accountability.

I’m asking Mayor Mamdani and New York City leadership to meet with survivors, review this proposal, and help make NYC the first place in the country to pilot a model like this.

Because if New York leads here, other cities can follow.

Website: familycourtnyc.lovable.app

Share this. Tag the Mayor. Let’s make sure City Hall sees it.

26/02/2021

Really interesting read. I'm going to post a sign in the shop soon that reads: Spirituality without accountability makes you a dick. Don't be a dick. 🙌🏼

https://www.elephantjournal.com/2020/12/how-covid-exposed-the-narcissism-of-the-new-age-community/?fbclid=IwAR1VxQspCUH43phBHCIWjFvWKNh2-nNtkDhLUOokY5iVLFrcfw1dJ1e6JP4

This was one of the few gifts of 2020, as it put a colossal spotlight on the negative impact that spiritual bypassing has on the world and on ourselves.

27/01/2019

The difference a year can make. I bet most people in Ericeira were to walk by me looking like this they wouldn’t recognise me. This full moon past has kicked my ass. So much childhood and adulthood trauma resurfacing to finally be released. Also working through the 28 day soul coaching program with my clients has it ALL coming up. One thing I realised I’ve had a tendency to do in the past is when life doesn’t go how I want or really just real life happens, I’ve tended to make myself small and run, change my life and try to forget rather than facing the pain. I did this when my marriage ended and archived almost 4,000 photos on here. Realising these photos and words are my story - one to be proud of and just because life did not work out how I thought I wanted it, it’s what got me here today. Also the process of one by one (which in STILL doing) bringing them back into my account I’ve been able to reflect on how amazing my life has been. I’ve lived in so many beautiful cities, so many gorgeous homes (I miss my lofts so much!), and have had so many amazing experiences with my little girl. Also the struggle of not knowing why I was sick for SO MANY YEARS up through healing my . It’s been an adventure one that’s brought most of you beautiful people into my life. Now it’s time for healing my soul even deeper. Releasing all the old patterns I’ve played out for so many years once and for good. Cherishing the amazing life I have lived with all its highs and lows - and writing the next chapters. The healing never stops does it? Here’s to the solar eclipse in my home sign cappy that just passed 👏. Bravo for bringing the challenges and chance to grow. 🙏

18/01/2019

I have been so blessed lately with a healthy and growing healing practice. Getting to connect with so many incredible souls that in turn help me learn and grow is a honour. I’ve learned so much this last year as a soul coach. The biggest lesson: we all carry our things, our fears, our traumas, our shadows and it’s through facing these and finding support we level up and grow as people. I have also learned most of what we carry as people is so similar, the want to understand ourselves, to be accepted and loved, to know we belong somewhere. Since I’ve fully stepped into this role and “title” as “healer” even though my entire life I was always in some way or another already acting out this purpose, I’ve gotten a lot of comments about how refreshing it is to meet someone in this world that isn’t so “woo-woo”, that doesn’t dress in all white, who is comfortable cursing and have real life vices. It feels great to be accepted and praised but the little secret is - we all are healers in our own form and format. When you hug a friend who is having a hard time you are healing, when you parent your children you are healing, when you show up passionately for the things you believe in you are healing the entire world. We all have the capacity to show up fully for the world around us and make it a better place and I guess that’s been my biggest message with my life and it’s many phases so far either mommy blogging, music industry, volunteer work and the like, the simple fact if we step up we all can change the world for the better. We are all tools in this thing we call the universe.

13/01/2019

Almost two years ago I had a vision. I vision of a space where people would come to heal, a container where people could explore their spirituality and feel supported on this path I headed out on after dealing with THANK YOU dear souls of the Ericeira healing collective that fully helped me actualise this dream yesterday. Thank you to the practitioners who so beautifully offered their services. Thank you to the people that came with open hearts and open minds to receive. I know in my soul is just this beginning. This space and community will evolve and grow just as Diogo and I grow alongside of it. So much gratitude for being in our home and being on this journey with us friends. 2019 is going to be “the” year ❤️

31/12/2018

Happy New Year Friends! I have to say I’m in the camp this year SO ready to put 2018 behind me and say farewell! I do feel blessed for all the amazing things it’s brought to my life but wow - looking forward to what I’m hoping for will be a calmer year in 2019. Less stress, more health, and a whole lot of 💖! I decided this weekend to break my 28 day soul coaching program which starts this Wednesday into two smaller groups of people for more intimate meetings and deeper one on one style connection. This also opened up two more seats in the course for two more people looking to start the new year with full self love and support. This is not a diet program nor a fitness program, is an intimate course that focuses in on our souls connection with the physical body. It’s great for anyone recovering from illness like or the woman that wants to find confidence and self love in her own skin. And since we will be meeting online, anyone can attend! I’ll be running through the program with the attendees myself and I am SO ready for it. I’m a year out since my CT journey, in a new place in my life completely and looking forward to reconnecting with my body myself in this new version of my life. DM me if you have any questions and signup link is in my profile! 🙏❤️🙏

20/12/2018

The most valuable thing we have to offer the world is not our force, our ambition or our ability to problem-solve, but a cultivated inner life, a centred spirit and the courage to create .:. .:. .:. Enrolment for my “New Year. New You.” course closes this coming Tuesday!!! It’s online and remote so you can join us from anywhere in the world. We already have a fabulous group of ladies joining us and there’s two seats left. This course is focused on your body and our internal relationship with it. No new year diets, no fads but the tools to develop a stronger inner alignment and confidence to love your outer self. With connection comes under standing and confidence to walk through the world feeling good about how you look and present yourself to the world. I’ve struggled for years with my body image and self confidence in regards to my body - so I know personally how important this type of healing and self support is. It’s particularly important if you have suffered from or are facing any sort of illness, this program can help you heal from the inside out. Give yourself the gift of a healthier year ahead and join our sacred circle starting the first week of January. ❤️🙏❤️

13/12/2018

“The soul speaks its truth only under quiet, inviting, and trustworthy conditions” - Peter Parker .:. .:. .:. I’ve been reading a lot about attachment styles this week past and it’s so so so interesting. I was already deeply engrossed in the world of twin flames and all that’s to do with “spiritual romance” as a lot of my clients are twin flames trying to figure out their own journeys. Having met my own twin flame catalyst which to lead me directly to my true twin when the time was right after years of longing, this stuff is fascinating to me. I’m starting to see the direct connection on all my interests, how minerals affect our bodies and minds via or any imbalance and how that’s connected to the spiritual journeys we are on including how our relationships affect our health and well-being. It ALL affects our physical health, it’s all connected. We are taught in the western world you need to be truly independent to be happy, that codependency is a negative thing yet there are so many studies that prove the positive affects of POSITIVE attachment, when you are supported and lifted up and loved fully without strings has not just emotionally but actual positive physical affect on our overall health. I encourage everyone to study about attachment theory - it may help you understand your past experiences in relationship better and will foster better relationships in your present. I can’t wait to bring more of this stuff to my work, continue to connect all the dots the universe has laid out for me as a healer and in my own life and continue to be the best tool I possibly can be for my clients. ❤️ photos again by our love