18/05/2026
I WISH I KNEW THIS 10 YEARS AGO ⬇️
(DM me ‘LEAP’ if you want to start taking action now - even if you don’t have the answers yet).
When I was in corporate, I didn’t know what I wanted to do. If I hád known, I would have left my corporate job years earlier than I did. But I stayed because I didn’t have direction - yet. I didn’t know what I wanted to do otherwise - yet.
Here’s what actually helped me to get more clarity and to finally leap before I had the full answer:
1️⃣ Instead of asking myself “what’s my dream job”, I started asking “What do I NOT want to do”? Which part of my work don’t I like?
I knew I didn’t want the 8am-8pm (or more) work days.
I knew I didn’t want the never-ending hierarchy to fight with.
I knew I didn’t want to keep climbing a ladder towards a goal I actually didn’t feel gave me true meaning and purpose.
I knew I didn’t want to wake up having to rush like crazy every morning to run the same hamster wheel day after day.
So, ask yourself the same - what do yóu NOT want?
2️⃣ I also started asking myself “If nothing would change in the next 3 years, would I be OK with that?” Would I feel good about my life then?
The answer was a hard NO.
What would your answer be?
3️⃣ I started paying attention to what was draining my energy. And what was nourishing my energy. And the answers gave me clues.
4️⃣ And I started to notice which topics, conversations, thoughts and visions kept coming back. I started writing those down, because I realized they’re not random.
The answers to all these questions gave me guidance.
They told me what was ‘wrong’ and they showed me it was ‘wrong enough’ to move now - before I had the clear direction.
And you guessed it - once I did, the actual answer came really, really fast and easily.
Because if there’s one big thing I learned over the past 15 years in taking leap after leap, it’s that the answer rarely comes before you move.
You just need to trust yourself enough to take that first step, and that you’ll figure it out.
DM me ‘LEAP’ if you’re ready to start doing exactly that.
