06/01/2024
Marriage is very sacred and as such the thought of leaving is something many struggle to address but there comes a time when one needs to walk away.
Every marriage goes through phases and sometimes issues will arise. The strong unions also get to persevere so stay committed.
Stay committed but define and understand your breaking point. Not defining this will mean that you stay on in a toxic union doing damage to yourself and what you have left from the system.
When security is no longer assured and it’s gotten to a point you no longer feel safe, walk. Get away from there to a place where you are safe. You can only work on marriage where there’s life.
Walk also before your physical and mental health deteriorate to a point of no return. Sometimes, what’s going on is not seen to others because the spouse is manipulative, cunning and intelligent. When it comes to your health, don’t be afraid to be loyal to yourself first.
Walk when over big issues you cannot tolerate, your spouse shows a permanent lack of desire to compromise or work with you to try and fix things.
Walk when you have lost the loyalty of your spouse because a spouse not loyal to you can shock you in different ways. This is of course subjected to what you can tolerate before it breaks you.
Walk when the spirituality actions of your spouse gets to a negative or scary state that makes you afraid and unsafe.
Walk when the feelings become permanently wicked.
Walk before you get to a point where you’d engage in infidelity unapologetically.
Walk before you get entrapped for punishment either with money, love or care.
Ensure though that you have prayed, sought professional help and also given logical thoughts before you walk. Ensure you are not walking into a worse situation.
Give your best until you get to you breaking point and worry less about what people will say because people would always talk.
