Burden No More

13/10/2025

My apologies for low profile these past years since dear mummy left us.....

Thanks to everyone and FB for helping me reconnecting once again.

24/10/2023

Hi all.
Pse kindly ignore or delete if you do receive any abusive or disturbing postings from "Burden No More" FB page. They are not from me.

FB just highlighted to me this morning that this account may be hacked.

28/02/2019

https://www.facebook.com/ifeelyoungsg/photos/basw.AbpA_KOQaDg1DatQ7CGBpfDOAVzAgObMYXQFEcNujR8vuP2z1z5Jm1HO00SaKdt1k_dlV3YrZJDeZ1T33tIdpcxPKnpIUnhaIfL1yzFo874MVLfFuC7LXE8zBrD3gbtGBgJWIl1KUkMUuqKb4DRXivKK.981884038667424.965069570348871.965070547015440.731318307057333.919649411557554.777919955730501/981884038667424/?type=1&opaqueCursor=Abp5g-Py7jx_hz9xGyItHL8e4yT0x3Y2F0uPbgECWi7dnortBuMuQvCnAdiMAnNlU9nj7_nldLGQFtKe0Z_FTrwJinidT311KllXBfufIo4f_4_IKeJmAo5msK6SGUOd5mvrrdBAY1wQF0nznYiogiJxmxuacWwSj6lPqLbr25trvE9okHrWlObr36GMN6UV3WcQ8UD98E05LIOA1miuewfZg__Aek_JUcGDbbMCdEr2O04R-HZHySNIGki-W9oIJJ-CtI3G8NvJG4SVbN3fHCUrS5Q4sUYwx2gSk7ov_XkxQZN4w1cca9bTh0Nt7gG8aABeACik-V180qvZ8Otu5AmWhUuZKwIO6lq_qabrICkl6hWq7P8kWL_72RNMBp5Mc-7qDB1iIDyW2eWzMguUNOIHGxpK4wC5TbcQ5pCDtqHSYHg49dXh7QDrK683xoCt6xm59WxT2fmY8oES5OPQNyxIIP8OCNhM3U8if4MnF05rjiaNnc0N-ize007EU_Y2frhz6UfUyB2uAVqzQ_i_DV7_9z47UzMek_PC2qrffaw4LTVP1RQGBAg_GRdkGM3RQy5vPYopC6hcZZffGN0S4PlCmRCyyQWD7xkMdhTEWrfE0Gx3mqUxIfMicRohGqY8tcHCjxu41BYAUrg67Vxuly9E2IQZwu0BSPvwOSJBjcr82iT_G7TvHozVdlISI2w-NEum7-2aRiGDsTTb48ne8HHfJRmBklO6kpLwoMbo791NEdW1tb6hGm86YTFXAu_Rkj_qJTTkJjxVOHTEUAu2hm8MbwVpYaSqGbVdfe6Dsr5gSVnTznBjajjMFrGcGwvnYgtJ6GVLpLKz5Yzwgchmv_BsmX-kyYzrTzZk87RGLVWYoA&theater

Patsy Chia, 64, (right) and her mother, Mary Lai, shared a close bond. So it went beyond Patsy’s wildest imagination that her mother would be stricken with dementia in 2006 at the age of 73.

Thus began Patsy’s journey of caring for her mother for the next 10 years. From watching her mother’s personality change to witnessing her slow descent into the final stages of dementia before passing on in 2016, Patsy trudged on with the support of her family and friends and from the memories of her mother’s love.

This photo of Patsy and her mum was snapped in March 2015. It signals happier times, but above all, it signals a daughter’s love for her mum – a love that knows no bounds.

Read Patsy's story: https://www.moh.gov.sg/ifeelyoungsg/our-stories/how-can-we-build-stronger-ties/care-for-a-senior/an-unforgettable-love

11/06/2017

11/06/2017

Dearest mum has left is for a yeae more.....dearky missed but affectiously remembered.

I do apologise for a long silence in my period of coping with my grieve.

22/04/2017

Burden No More is featured as one of Best Sellers at BCB
http://blackcardbooks.com/bestselling-authors/

26/07/2016

So pleased that my book 'Burden No More" is now availalable at the library:

http://catalogue.nlb.gov.sg/cgi-bin/spydus.exe/FULL/EXPNOS/BIBENQ/10667710/171898519,1

10/06/2016

family and I would like to thank everyone for their love, support, prayers and condolences on the recent lost of my dearest mum. She will be sadly missed but we are consoled she has gone to rest in a better place. May her soul RIP.

08/06/2016

Book Burden No More will soon be available at the National Library........

22/05/2016

What do we do when it comes to "'End of Life" situation with your loved one?

It is only the beginning of the next journey with dearest mum as she progresses on to the advanced stage of her dementia. I know it will not be an easy one but only another challenge.

Tube feeding ? It is a big question doctors will be asking you. Ensuring she is comfortable and with the best care we can provide her is important.