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04/06/2026

Your friendly neighbourhood astrologer is back at Pasar Pink this weekend! 🌙

Pasar Pink has been my Pride month staple since 2018.

This year, I'm keeping it simple: no students, no crystals, no whatever. Just you, me and astrology.

So pop by, sit down, ask me anything about your chart, and we'll go from there. Yup, it's that simple. ✨

Come find me at Booth 18. First of three PinkFest events I'll be at this month 😏

📍 Pasar Pink 2026 @ New Bahru (School Hall)
🗓️ Sat 6 June, 11am - 8pm
🗓️ Sun 7 June, 11am - 6pm
Booth 18

29/05/2026

Unfortunately, at a party full of fresh faces, I'm simply not like the charmer of Slide 1.

Instead, I get stressed, overwhelmed- quietly wishing I could just withdraw and disappear 🫠. To survive the party, I drift towards the people I already know. Play with my phone. Stay in safety. 📱😬

My go-to story in groups is: people are neither able nor willing to take me in my fullness. So, it might be better to just... you know, withdraw and be in the corners... 🫥

I traced that back to my first dinner table. My family- the first group I ever belonged to. From them, I learned that I was too loud. Too intense. Too much. Over time, I just stopped sharing, withdrew and shut out. 🙁

No wonder I behave the way that I do at parties. No wonder I work for myself. 🙃

That's really what this workshop is about- supporting you to see the patterns you picked up from your first human system, and how they continue to shape the way you walk into every room ever since.

After all, you can't change what you can't see. 🌿

20 Jun 2026 / 10am - 1pm / 1 Keong Saik Road
Link in bio ✨

25/05/2026

This is a bit late, but...

I'm Spilling the Tea with RainbowAsia, this Saturday on 30th May.

I'll be leading a piece I usually run in IHLs and leadership programmes. We'll be exploring how to manage conflict and have difficult conversations at your workplace- the stuff we mostly just... tahan.

Curious? Come hang. Link in bio.

15/05/2026

Interestingly, I had a conversation with a straight Singaporean man recently.

He completely understands the minority experience. When he was working in the US, he specifically felt how people didn't really trust or want to work with him because of his skin colour.

But when I brought up how he's part of the dominant group back home in Singapore: "Oh but Singapore is different. We are meritocratic."

I just said: I wonder if the minorities feel the same. 🙃

Swipe to see what I mean- and link in bio if you want to do this work in a room together at . 🌈

12/05/2026

Leverage on the Mercury Cazimi + New Moon in Ta**us this week!
Don't scroll past this video!

08/05/2026

I've been part of since its genesis in 2018! Back then, it was just a handful of core events like 's Pasar Pink. I'm proud to share that I was one of the first few spiritual practitioners to set up a booth there. For some reason, I kept coming back- not just out of habit, but because... you know, just trying to show up for the community in small ways. 🩷

Since last year, I've been upping my game at PinkFest by running my own events. This year is no exception. 🎉

Interestingly, I'm not offering any astrology workshop this year (I might do something last minute, who knows? 🤷) Instead, I am offering something I've become increasingly interested in: awareness of how we relate to each other via experiential learning. We will explore how power moves through groups, what diversity and inclusion even means (spoiler: it might take leaving Singapore for Switzerland to find out 😏), and why the way we show up in community traces back further than we think.

If you still want to engage me about astrology, you'll still find me doing astrology readings at Pasar Pink! ✨

Intrigued yet? Swipe to see what I'm bringing this year. Come find me. 👉

04/05/2026

I've spent close to 10 years doing one-to-one work, and last Friday, I got my PCC.

I still remember that I was stressing over the exam the day before: studying the ethics and core competencies, doing sample questions for practice (seriously, who does that?). When I got my results immediately after the exam, the first thought that came out of me was a surprising

"Oh f***..."

I didn't quite understand my reaction immediately.

I started doing one-to-one work as an astrologer. Over time, the work that I do became less about the chart and more about the person sitting in front of me. And that was what got me into getting a certification in Ontological Coaching, then the ACC and now this- the PCC.

This is the highest standard I have ever reached in this work. It's a really big deal: on top of passing this exam, I have to clock 500 hours of coaching, have 125 hours of coaching education, 10 hours of mentor coaching and have my mentor evaluate my recordings and transcripts.

So what was the "Oh f***..." really about?

And then it hit me: I'd spent so much time thinking about passing this exam that I didn't actually think I could pass it. And even though I did pass it, I still didn't feel that I could declare that I'm, indeed, coaching at this new level. This "not good enough" story is truly and indeed a bitch (please excuse me).

There's a version of this story where the prince waits until he feels ready to be king. But the crown doesn't wait. Ready or not, it's his now. He wears it, and he must learn to grow into it.

Yes, I just compared getting my PCC to becoming king. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I guess the "Oh f***..." is also about the recognition of a line I can no longer step behind now. I cannot hide behind "I'm not sure if I'm good enough" anymore. And I can also no longer give myself excuses to play it small.

Yes Gabby, it's time to get your s**t together and be the PCC-level coach that you are now.

If you've been considering working with me, there has never been a better moment. And if you've been watching from the sidelines, watch this space.

02/05/2026

What people don't tell you about engaging a practitioner for a reading:
The Guru-centric Vs The Coach-oriented

24/04/2026

"You're not afraid of risks, you're just afraid of people."

Most of us are great at taking risks with ourselves. It's the risks we take with other people that we tend to avoid.

With Saturn and Neptune in Aries going on these few years, what is being asked of us now is about being willing to be seen while risking disapproval and disagreement.

21/04/2026

Five years running the same workshop and I still leave with more questions than answers. Which I guess is the point.

This is my fifth year co-facilitating Interpersonal Dynamics at Cambridge Judge Business School's eMACC programme (I still pinch myself just to be sure it's real). Every cohort humbles me in a new way.

It's hard to explain what we really do in this module. No slides or clear content. No right or wrong answers. The people in the room are the content and the workshop follows their pace: going as deep as they want to go. It's experiential, messy, and emergent. We don't always quite know what we will cover and adjust the design at the end of each day.

And because it's adult learning- people take what they're ready and willing to take. We can design the container but we cannot control what chooses to emerge. (The control freak in me finds this really hard.)

The tension I have to hold is ultimately- how much work should I do for the group? Do I name what I see moving in the room, or do I hold back and let them see it themselves? And if they don't find it — is that ok for me?

The astrology of those few days was absolutely repeating these familiar tensions. Mars, Saturn, Neptune, Mercury, Moon- all piling into Aries, all conjuncting my Moon in Aries. You have no idea how many times I really want to jump in- but because the transits also square my Capricorn and Cancer placements, I felt like I needed to hold and let the room figure it out on its own.

This year I was definitely a lot sharper. I've done five group work containers over the last twelve months and that gave me eyes I didn't have. I could see more and name what was previously unnameable.

And still, that question remains.

Five years in, and I still don't have the answer. I guess, steeping in this ambivalent ambiguous unknown is the work.

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