07/12/2026
Love the image.
And I see this happening in the group. Acceptance of some personality disorders, but not others.
When all personality disorders come from the same place.
We are here for all neurodivergents. Not just some.
Let's talk about this in the comments.
I spoke at the Neurodiversity Affirming Therapy Conference Australia on BPD and NPD the other day and I was asked what I think about personality disorders vs CPTSD.
My answer?
Same roots, different branches.
Same roots, different presentations.
The root? Complex trauma.
Do I think the label of personality disorder is extremely stigmatising and shaped by patriarchal, colonialist, neuronormative and cisheteronormative expectations around relationships, distress, communication and emotions that causes more harm than good?
(Read: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12936405/)
Absolutely.
But while these labels exist, we must a) acknowledge the harm of diagnosing someone with a “personality disorder” and b) understand them as labels that describe different presentations of distress, trauma responses, survival strategies and adaptations to complex trauma.
Edited to add: I accidentally and UNINTENTIONALLY left out ASPD because I can struggle to comprehend/see when there’s multiple words on a screen. It was originally included when I wrote just the acronyms but when I decided to write out the full names, I forgot to include that and didn’t realise I didn’t include it. And I will forever feel shame over not including it.