05/31/2026
Something I’ve been trying to get better about, but am definitely struggling with, is learning to take time off again. 🙃
In fact, the past two years is the first time in most of my adult life, that I haven’t been working more than one job or going to school.
Maybe some of you can relate.
Even when we first started building Lumos in 2022, I was working full time as a faculty member, adjunct teaching in a different department, and doing markets almost every weekend (and Chris was also working full time and helping me at all these markets. Bless him).
And during the first year of building a brick and mortar I’ve only taken one vacation 🤣 and hardly any days off during our open hours.
(A few months in I did start mandating a day off… then two and sometimes that’s still hard).
I’ve even had a few times this past month were I kept thinking there was more I needed to do, but couldn’t place my finger on it and it felt weird to not have something I had to do right then.
This month, I started trying to tell my scarcity mind that
✨ part of the reason we built Lumos Collective into a brick and mortar was to make jobs for others and we are so lucky to have an amazing team ( s/o @ @ @ )
✨ that said amazing team can, and does, handle it and it’s okay for me to not be there every 34+ hours that we are open
✨ that part of building this brick and mortar is building community but the community happens even if I’m not there
✨ we are entering a new beautiful stage in the business where I don’t have to be on 24/7
It’s been tricky working on this part of my mindset but today I put it in action.
This morning Shelby and I ran errands (including attempting to be car fixing divas with Heather) and got to have a slow Saturday morning.
Then in the evening, Chris and I got to go on a dinner date (and yall we don’t do that enough!).
And guess what?
Everything survived.
Sometimes, when we are working on building a business, we have to document these little things to our brain sees the evidence that we Che do things we aren’t used to.
And I’m so thankful for this day of rest!
How are you when it comes to resting? Does it come easy to you or no?