08/30/2026
Baby #3 for Mariah. đ¤
One thing I teach my clients about healingâwhether postpartum, after surgery, a broken bone, or an illnessâis to ask:
âWhat direction is healing going?â
Thereâs often a âpeakâ day when inflammation and discomfort are highest. With surgery, this is typically around day 3. It can be the worst day as the body responds to the injury.
Postpartum, around day 3, afterbirth cramping typically starts to lessen.
What matters most is what happens AFTER that expected peak.
âĄď¸ We want the overall trend moving toward betterânot worse.
If things start getting worse, that can be a sign something isnât right. Sometimes itâs an infection.
In Mariahâs case, it turned out her entire placenta had not been delivered.
At first, she thought the discomfort might simply be because sheâs in her 30s now vs. her 20s with her other two babies.
But after a few days, she noticed more cramping and vaginal pain (she didnât have stitches), and her bleeding was starting to return.
I told her: âThatâs an unexpected direction for healing.â
At that point, it was either:â¨1) She had been too active and wasnât allowing enough time to heal (but I was there with her, and she was doing really well following the rest/healing plan), orâ¨2) Something was off course in her healing process.
A couple days later, she sent me the picture.
Her midwife had told her to watch for infection.
She called me because she didnât want to âwait for an infection.â I encouraged her to take steps ahead of time to address pathogenic organismsâsuch as a couple drops of Rachaelâs Remedy in water or oil of oregano.
I also suggested she rest for a couple days and, if she still had cramping after 3 days, call and request an ultrasound to make sure all of the placenta was out.
By day 3, her healing took a turn for the better! đđź Back on track.
⨠Takeaway: Pay attention to the direction of healing.
Healing doesnât always feel good. But after the expected peak, we want the overall trend moving toward betterânot worse.
This is one of the things I help my clients learn: how to recognize whatâs expected, listen to their body, and know when itâs time to look a lil deeper. đ¤