06/19/2026
One of the most common things I hear from patients, clients, and family caregivers is:
"I didn't even know what to ask."
And honestly, I understand why.
Most people don't spend their days navigating healthcare. Then suddenly they're faced with a cancer diagnosis or another serious illness and expected to understand treatment options, test results, referrals, medications, insurance requirements, and complex medical terminology.
All while trying to process what the diagnosis means for their life and family.
When you're overwhelmed, it's hard to know what questions to ask.
It's hard to know what information is missing.
It's hard to know whether you're making the best decision.
I've seen patients leave appointments unsure about their next steps. I've seen caregivers carry the weight of coordinating care while trying to support their loved one. I've seen people struggle to make sense of conflicting information from multiple healthcare providers.
The challenge isn't that people don't care about their health.
The challenge is that healthcare can be complicated.
Sometimes what people need most is someone to help them prepare for important conversations, understand their options, organize information, and make sure their questions are answered.
Because asking the right question can make a difference.
What treatment options are available?
Should I get a second opinion?
What side effects should I expect?
Who is coordinating my care?
What happens next?
No one should feel like they have to navigate a complex healthcare journey alone.
What's one question you wish you had asked sooner during a healthcare experience?
Dr. Kafilat Salawu, DNP, FNP-C, AOCNP
Hematology-Oncology Nurse Practitioner
Founder| Fides Health Advocates, LLC