09/05/2026
It’s hard to verbalize that something is wrong when you don’t even understand it yourself.
For a long time, I thought there was something wrong with me. I was so hard on myself. I tried to do the self-work, I tried to get help, but when your partner doesn’t understand what you’re going through, it makes you feel even more isolated.
When someone asks, “What’s wrong?” and you honestly don’t know… you’re just trying to figure it out.
But then I had this realization: It’s not me. It’s this situation. This isn’t what I want….it’s what everybody else wants.
Making the decision to leave was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. People didn’t understand. They thought I was selfish. They thought I didn’t care. And it’s incredibly challenging to talk to the people closest to you when they just don’t get it and probably never will.
But here is what I know for sure: If you are scared right now, on the other side of that fear is your freedom. You just have to be willing to make the decision.
Leaving gave me the opportunity to finally focus on myself and learn who I actually am.
And if you’re in that season, if you’re on a healing journey, if you’re trying to figure out where you are, or if you’re starting over …a massive piece of that is your health and fitness.
Fitness gives you the focus and dedication to pour back into yourself. It betters every single area of your life. I don’t care what anyone says.
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