25/10/2020
We need to talk…
Health and fitness is not a game of shame.
Shame if you miss a workout, shame if you overate. Shame if you didn’t drink all your water.
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It’s not about feeling less than if you aren’t 💯 all in.
This is about finding your groove with what matters most in your life.
Enjoying being with your loved ones and creating a lifestyle that compliments your journey.
Accepting the very real feelings and emotions that come with change. Through allowing yourself to actually feel the happy and the negative you can truly move forward.
Many times we buffer our negative feelings with emotional eating/ screen time/shopping/drinking etc. because it feels temporarily good.
When we allow our bodies to feel and process negative emotion we can stop judging and resisting the feelings (eg. Misery, loneliness, self loathing, shame etc) we can realize it’s part of the human experience, it’s not as powerful as we think and they are only vibrations in our bodies.
Be willing to experience the ugly and welcome the negative emotions to be felt. In doing so, you can empower yourself and realize it’s more of the practice of avoiding and resisting negative feelings that’s harmful when replaced with buffering actions.
This is education, growth, bonding, learning, acceptance, movement and fueling with healthier habits physically and mentally.
We don’t diet, we learn to be aware of our bodies and minds and what uplifts us in both ways.
And most importantly, don’t give up on you.
You know yourself the best.
Don’t underestimate your intuitive mind and what you know will serve you best.
I’m here to help guide you!
☝🏽this is part of a message I felt I needed to share with my clients this morning and then realized it might benefit more of you.
Can you recognize in your life where you may be buffering (choosing short term happiness actions to avoid feeling the negative)to put a bandaid on what really needs to be addressed?👇🏽