Wise One Within, JT Trepanier, M.S.

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Wise One Within, JT Trepanier, M.S. I help people shift anxiety & fear around death, illness, sexuality and mothering into wisdom.

09/21/2026

On the eve of my 49th birthday, this feels like the story I want to share.

I just returned from a mind-blowing and heart-opening retreat hosted by Nipun and Greg from ServiceSpace and Emerging Prairie. We were invited to come, asked to pay nothing, and show up with open hearts - willing to dive into the unknown and unknowable together.
I sat with Republicans, Democrats, farmers, vegan activists, devout Christians and Catholics, hippies, spiritual folks, movie directors, nonprofit founders, lawyers, ministers, and a former CIA officer-turned-peacemaker.

The diversity was awe-inspiring. And it gave me hope… in a tiny town in Medora, North Dakota.
There were so many moments of genuine connection, curiosity and deep listening. And when confusion entered the room, compassion sat right beside it. People shared from the heart, listened deeply, and held space for one another without needing to make others wrong.

In the end, something shifted in all of us. Unlikely connections formed. Kindness prevailed. We were all reminded that we are more alike than we are different.
And then there was my daddy’s violin.

For some reason, before I left for my 7-hour drive to North Dakota, I had a vision of someone playing the violin at the retreat. So I brought my dad’s violin, a violin that had been silent for 18 years (since he took his life).
I was curious who might play it.

Until Janessa, a former CIA officer-turned-peace activist, bravely stepped forward. Even though she doesn’t normally perform in front of people, she played my daddy’s violin alongside another retreat guest, a phenomenal professional violinist, Leoncarlo.

I watched healing happen right in front of my eyes. Eighteen years of silence… broken by stunning music. That moment will live in me forever.

What a powerful time to be alive. In a world that constantly shows us our divisions, I witnessed what becomes possible when we get curious about each other instead.

Leaving you with the balance of two of the songs they played: one holding grief, the other holding joy. Because if there’s one language that keeps reminding us we belong to each other, it’s music from the heart. ❤️

09/07/2026

Summer fueled me up for some MAJOR things that are about to unfold 🔥☺️

Are there certain places, certain lands, that just fill your spirit?!

For me, home always seems to live somewhere near the Pacific Ocean ❤️ San Diego, Cannon Beach and all its magical creatures, the Portland Japanese Garden. Toss in friends and family, and my cup is FULL. ☺️

Summer is coming to an end, but my favorite season is almost here… that beautiful in-between where life and death co-mingle. 🍂✨

Happy almost Fall, my favorite season of all. ❤️

08/27/2026

Some people are beautiful to look at. Some people are beautiful to be around. Some are both.

Becky Yee has spent her career capturing the essence of humanity.

Her Body, Soul, Spirit project explored three kinds of beauty within the same woman, physical beauty, the energy we carry, and that harder-to-name thing that shines from somewhere deeper - that inner sparkle.

And maybe the greatest artists don’t just capture what we look like. They remind us of who we are.

Becky Yee has photographed everyone from breast cancer survivors to President Obama, Angelina Jolie, Beyoncé, Brad Pitt and Stephen Colbert.

🎧 Hear her full story on Don’t Waste Your Pain. Spotify, Apple Podcasts and YouTube.
🔗 Website with show links in bio.

08/25/2026

Being lost does not mean you’re failing. Sometimes it means you’ve finally stopped forcing the map.

Becky learned early that life rarely gives us certainty. Instead of trying to control the unknowable, she learned how to live inside it, and eventually, create from it.

Maybe the unknown isn’t empty. Maybe that’s where the treasures are.

Becky Yee photographs the humanity beneath status, scars and stories, from breast cancer survivors to President Obama, Angelina Jolie, Beyoncé, Steven Tyler and Brad Pitt.

🎧 Her full Don’t Waste Your Pain episode is live on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and YouTube.
🔗 Link in bio.

08/23/2026

What happened to you may not have been your choice. What you do with it eventually is.

That’s the line Becky draws between pain that owns us and pain we learn to use.

Not blame. Not shame. Responsibility.

Once we can see the wound, we get to decide whether we keep living from it or start transforming it.

In other words:
Don’t waste your fu***ng pain.

🎧 Becky Yee’s full episode is live on Don’t Waste Your Pain, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and YouTube.
🔗 Link in bio.

08/02/2026

Buck did not find peace.

Peace found him.

In the middle of what was most certainly not okay, he experienced what he calls the great okayness.

A knowing beyond explanation that somehow, even here, he would be held.

Dr. Buck Blodgett forgave the man who took the life of his 19-year-old daughter, Jessie.

He founded Love Is Greater Than Hate and has spent more than 13 years teaching compassion and forgiveness to incarcerated men while also giving voice to survivors of domestic violence.

His profoundly powerful episode is live.

🔗 Link in bio. Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and YouTube.

07/27/2026

You can be a jackass and a great person.

You can hold grief and joy.

You can be deeply flawed and still be something extraordinary.

We are complicated. That is what makes us human.

Dr. Buck Blodgett forgave the man who took the life of his 19-year-old daughter, Jessie.

He founded Love Is Greater Than Hate and has spent more than 13 years teaching compassion and forgiveness to incarcerated men while also giving voice to survivors of domestic violence.

His profoundly powerful episode is live.

🔗 Link in bio. Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and YouTube.

07/21/2026

Whatever we cannot face owns us.

But when we bring light to the darkness and stay present with what hurts, it begins to lose its power.

Dr. Buck Blodgett forgave the man who took the life of his 19-year-old daughter, Jessie.

He founded Love Is Greater Than Hate and has spent more than 13 years teaching compassion and forgiveness to incarcerated men while also giving voice to survivors of domestic violence.

His profoundly powerful episode is live.

🔗 Link in bio. Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and YouTube.

07/21/2026

Dr. Buck Blodgett forgave the man who took the life of his 19-year-old daughter, Jessie.

He founded Love Is Greater Than Hate and has spent more than 13 years teaching compassion and forgiveness to incarcerated men while also giving voice to survivors of domestic violence.

His profoundly powerful episode is live.

🔗 Link in bio. Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and YouTube.

07/20/2026

Shame loses its power the moment you stop judging it and start witnessing it.

No hiding. No shrinking.

When shame no longer runs the show, you get to be authentically your fu***ng self, and that gives everyone else permission to tell the truth too.

Kyla Mitsunaga is a Harvard-educated, award-winning former professor, Family Constellations Facilitator, and joy bringer.

Her episode is live.

🔗 Link in bio.

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