09/03/2026
Just some things I apparently needed to get out of my system on Threads this week 😂
Every relationship isn't karmic. Every reaction isn't a diagnosis. Every coping mechanism you built to survive something doesn't have to become your whole personality forever. Sometimes two people mattered to each other for a while and then just stopped fitting, and that's the entire story with absolutely no cosmic lesson required.
Knowing why you do something is the easy part. Actually changing it is the part nobody wants to talk about.
The thing you've been calling your personality for twenty years might just be armor. Getting healthier sometimes means finally meeting the parts of you that armor was covering up.
And regulated doesn't mean quiet. Sometimes it just means saying "no, that's not true" out loud instead of swallowing it so nobody else has to feel awkward.
ALSO... a stranger's three paragraph caption and one selfie is not a full psychological file. Please stop building one 🙄🙃
I believe in mystery and I believe in evidence, and those stopped being at war inside me a LONG time ago. I can question my read on something without it making the thing less sacred... and I can absolutely change my mind about a feeling without the feeling mattering any less.
Growing up... healing... whatever word you want... also comes with realizing you don't owe your participation to everything that gets handed to you. Sometimes the whole spiritual practice is just a big fu***ng NO THANKS.
Anyway, apparently Threads is where I yell tiny philosophy into the void now. Having a great time.