06/02/2026
Feedback Is a Gift
(Even When It Stings)...
Feedback is a gift—and sometimes, it's a hard one to unwrap. It's not always easy to hear things that don't align with how you thought an experience went or how you see yourself. But I've learned that reflection is where growth happens. I genuinely value feedback because I care deeply about the women who join me on retreats and programs, and I want to understand how they experience what we create together.
Over the years, I've received feedback that made me wince. One comment was, "If you want to lead, step into the leader role." Ouch. But instead of dismissing it, I sat with it. What could I learn from it? As a result, I brought a bit more structure to my retreats while still honoring choice and autonomy, offering activities as an invitation rather than an expectation.
More recently, I received feedback that led me to a different realization. Maybe I hadn't been clear enough about the purpose of the trip. How the trip was designed. Maybe I could do a better job helping participants identify their own goals before we even hit the trail. Perhaps "finishing" wasn't their goal at all—perhaps they were seeking confidence, connection, rest, or something else entirely.
That's the beauty of reflection and being open to feedback. You learn. You grow. You adapt. You become more resilient and less attached to a single way of thinking.
Even when you don't fully agree with the feedback, there's often something valuable to uncover. Sometimes the win isn't the feedback itself—it's being willing to have the conversation. So here's to growth.
I'm not perfect, and I've never claimed to be. I'll continue to listen, learn, and adjust along the way.
My invitation to you is the same: be open, be honest with yourself, and learn to listen. You might be surprised by what you discover. Space and time can also offer a different perspective. I also believe that everything happens for a purpose, put some time into reflecting on what that might be..it isn't always clear.
Growth rarely happens when we have all the answers. Where are your blindpots? Are you willing to see them?
If you're curious about what you might discover about yourself through challenge, connection, and time in nature, there are still spots available on upcoming retreats.
Foundations: the gift of rest, reflection and community in nature (under 15 miles for the weekend)
Expansions: more physical challenge, a great mix of healing activities and resilience building (under 30 miles for the trip)
Misogi: the ultimate physical challenge in nature, test your physical and mental toughness (high mileage and elevation
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