Blissfully Balanced

Blissfully Balanced Welcome to my page! I offer support in becoming "Blissfully Balanced " in HEALTH, WORK, & LIFE! My name is Joei. We are here. It is time to feel the BLISS.

My name is Joei Marie and an RN and Medical intuitive, my journey of helping and healing myself and my life, has led me to my calling to help YOU! I am a 52 year old woman who has lived many lives in one. In my truest heart, I want to share that I am turning into the light out of the tunnel after many years of self-discovery and actualization through diving deep into healing through inner-child /

shadow work. That little girl was born to do big things, she just needed to realize that. I am here to show you that learning to accept the love that is offered to you in life...realizing it and learning to feel what was being offered is key. And I want to help you find the balance you need to experience YOUR "BLISSFUL BALANCE." We are all uniquely designed so each individual healing experience must be approached intricately. As I continue my journey, I hope to help you in finding your footing on yours.

08/30/2026

I should have walked away sooner.
I see that now.
But I believed in us.
In what we were building.
In the love I thought would survive anything.
And even now, I won’t say it was a mistake.
I won’t pretend I wish we’d never happened.
Some loves aren’t meant to last forever…
but they still have a value as a memory or lesson.
What we had was real.
And for a while, it was beautiful.
I wish things had turned out differently.
I wish love had been enough to keep us together.
But the truth is… we were never meant to walk the whole road side by side.
Still, the memories will always live somewhere inside me.
The laughter.
The quiet moments.
The way we once looked at each other like the world didn’t exist.
They’re part of my story now, my journey forward alone.
You taught me things about love, life, and myself that I couldn't have learned any other way.
And even the pain had its purpose.
I forgive you for the anger you carried.
For the words uttered in moments of hurt.
For the burden you placed on my shoulders that was never really mine to carry.
I understand now that some of it came from battles you were fighting within yourself.
That realization doesn’t erase the scars.
But it helps me make peace with them.
So slowly…
quietly…
I’m letting go.
Letting go of the fights.
The bitterness.
The aching questions.
There will always be songs that remind me of you.
Places that stir old memories.
Moments when your name passes through my mind like a distant echo.
And when it happens, I might pause for a second…
maybe even smile a little.
Because you were part of my journey.
Just not the destination.
Day by day, the pain grows lighter.
The tears come less often.
The hurt slowly fades into something softer… something quieter.
One day I’ll look back and the pain will be gone entirely.
Just a memory of a love that once existed.
I truly hope life is kind to you.
I hope you find peace.
I hope you find the happiness you were always searching for.
Because a small part of my heart will always wish you well.
But I’m moving forward now.
Healing.
Growing.
Finding my way back to myself.
For a time, it was us.
It was love.
It was a chapter that shaped me.
But seasons change.
Paths separate.
And now…
This next chapter belongs to me.
Mine to live.
Mine to breathe in deeply.
Mine to fill with laughter again.
And I deserve that life.
Every bit of it.
The next chapter..
Will be my best chapter.
|ravenwolf

08/28/2026

🌑 THE FINAL CLEARING: CLOSING THE ECLIPSE CORRIDOR

August 28, 2026

The eclipse corridor is closing, but before the gate shuts, one final clearing is moving through the collective.

Everything that rose during this passage came forward for a reason. The emotions you could not explain. The exhaustion that sleep could not touch. The memories you thought you had healed. The relationships that suddenly revealed their truth. The parts of your life that no longer felt like home.

None of it surfaced to punish you. It surfaced because you are no longer meant to carry it.

This corridor has been separating truth from illusion. It has shown us where we were still abandoning ourselves to keep the peace, shrinking to remain accepted, or holding onto expired versions of our lives simply because they were familiar.

Now the clearing begins.

Take a deep breath. Place your hand over your heart. Speak these words aloud, slowly and with intentio⁸n:

I release every burden, attachment, agreement, and identity that no longer belongs to the person I am becoming.

I release the guilt attached to who I had to become to survive. I forgive myself for staying too long, trusting too deeply, ignoring what my spirit already knew, and choosing from wounds I had not yet learned how to heal.

I release the need to be understood by those committed to misunderstanding me. I release the need to chase closure, prove my heart, defend my truth, or keep returning to places where my spirit is no longer honored.

I return every energy that is not mine, cleansed and without harm. I call every fragment of my own energy back from old relationships, painful memories, abandoned dreams, false timelines, and every place where I gave my power away hoping to be chosen.

I release every cord rooted in fear, guilt, shame, manipulation, obligation, resentment, or control. I close every door that drains my spirit. I open only to what is aligned with love, truth, peace, and the highest path the Creator has prepared for me.

I give thanks for every lesson, but I no longer agree to carry the pain. I bless what is leaving. I honor what has ended. I trust what is beginning.

My energy is my own. My heart is clear. My spirit is protected. My path is open.

I leave the old world on the other side of the gate.

And so it is.

The corridor is closing. Let the grief move. Let the tears come. Let the old story leave your body. You do not need to force the ending. Some doors close through confrontation, while others close the moment you stop feeding them your energy.

Put the weight down.

You are not the same person who entered this corridor. Walk forward lighter, clearer, and finally ready to receive the life your soul has been preparing you for.

ZF 🔥

08/28/2026

When physical attraction and sexual tension is no longer enough to awaken your interest.
You have experienced soul connection and soul connection goes beyond anything you have ever felt.
It is rare. it's special. Sacred even. Your cells long to embodied from within by another.

Your body reacts differently to a soul to soul alignment.
Your chakras align and alchemy transpires. You are both forever altered by the encounter.
It's a deep recognition and a deep love. It's a love that goes beyond traditional relationships.

You connect in all the 7 energy bodies. The 7 subtle bodies work like the vehicles of your soul. You first meet and start connecting in layer after layer.
The Etheric Body – First Layer
The Emotional Body – Second Layer
The Mental Body – Third Layer
The Astral Level – Fourth Layer
The Etheric Template Body – Fifth Layer
The Celestial Body – Sixth Layer
The Casual Body or Ketheric Template – Seventh Layer.

When these energy bodies connect, merge and meld they start to facilitate a shared unified field which enhances both individuals experience of life. Some may even say the two have Halos. They are experiencing spiritual illumination as a result of this love. This love is alchemy.

Once you have experienced this level of spiritual love, it becomes impossible to go back to regular relationships and a simple mental, emotional and physical connection.
If the spiritual element does not kick in at some point. You will feel hungry for that missing element.

If we are gifted this kind of love it is because we have earned it,
at some point along the way we did something right. We evolved to such a place within our heart center's and consciousness that we would be able to receive this type of connection. It's sacred and it's alchemy and it will be the new template for all to experience love at this time as humanity is ready for a quantum leap in learning about love.
This is the sacred union template and it is the most beautiful experience available to mankind at this time.

- Ulf Haukenes

08/06/2026

THE DIVINE UNION 🙏❤️‍🔥✨

There comes a moment on the spiritual path when we begin to realize that love was never meant to be a battlefield between the masculine and the feminine. It was always meant to be a sacred dance.

The Divine Masculine is not domination, control, or the absence of emotion. It is presence. It is integrity. It is courage, wisdom, protection, and the quiet strength to remain grounded even when life becomes uncertain.

The Divine Feminine is not weakness or dependence. It is intuition. It is compassion. It is creativity, grace, receptivity, and the life-giving power that transforms possibility into reality.

Neither is greater than the other.

Neither exists to rule the other.

Together, they create balance.

Yet before this harmony can exist within a relationship, it must first awaken within ourselves. Every soul carries both the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine. As these sacred qualities begin to come into balance, we become more whole, more authentic, and more capable of giving and receiving love without fear.

This is where true transformation begins.

The Divine Masculine learns to lead without controlling.

The Divine Feminine learns to receive without losing herself.

One offers stability.

The other offers flow.

One creates the foundation.

The other fills it with beauty, compassion, and life.

Together, they do not compete…

They co-create.

This is the deeper mystery of Divine Union.

It is not about finding someone to complete what is missing within us. It is about becoming so deeply rooted in our own truth that we are able to meet another soul with openness, honesty, and unconditional love.

When two awakened hearts come together, the relationship becomes more than romance.

It becomes a sanctuary where both people feel seen, valued, respected, and inspired to become the highest expression of themselves.

The strongest love is never built upon fear.

It is built upon trust.

The deepest intimacy is never created through possession.

It is created through presence.

And the most beautiful relationships are not those where two people lose themselves in one another…

They are the ones where two whole souls choose, each day, to walk side by side, helping one another grow, heal, dream, and create something greater than either could create alone.

Perhaps Divine Union has never been about finding the perfect person.

Perhaps it has always been about becoming the kind of person who can recognize, nurture, and embody a love that reflects the Divine itself.

For when the heart leads with wisdom…

When strength is guided by compassion…

When love becomes an act of conscious creation…

Heaven begins to reveal itself…

Not somewhere beyond this world…

But here…

Within us…

And between us.

08/05/2026

The Lion & The Goddess 🦁🌙✨

Before the first dawn
kissed the Earth…

Before the oceans
learned the language of tides…

Before the stars
were given names…

There was only Silence.

& from that Silence…

Love dreamed.

From its fire…

the Lion was born.

From its light…

the Goddess awakened.

He carried the strength
to move mountains…

She carried the beauty
that taught mountains
why they wished to stand.

The Sun crowned him
in gold…

The Moon wrapped her
in silver…

& Heaven watched…

wondering what might happen
if fire
ever learned
to love the light.

The Lion crossed deserts
that had forgotten rain…

Not searching
for a kingdom…

But for the only soul
whose presence
could quiet
the wilderness within him.

The Goddess wandered gardens
where every flower
opened beneath her footsteps…

Not searching
for someone
to worship her…

But for the only heart
strong enough
to recognize
her soul.

& when they finally met…

The wind
forgot to breathe.

The rivers
forgot where they were going.

Even the Sun
lingered upon the horizon…

unwilling to interrupt
what eternity
had waited
to behold.

The Lion did not kneel…

Yet somehow…

his soul did.

For the first time…

his strength
desired nothing
to conquer.

Only…

to protect.

The Goddess did not surrender…

Yet somehow…

every fear
she had ever carried
fell quietly to the Earth…

like petals returning
to the garden
that first imagined them.

She touched his mane…

& every war
he had carried
inside his bones
fell silent.

Not because
she had conquered him…

But because her hands
spoke a language
his soul remembered…

from before the world
taught him
to become fierce.

He looked upon her…

& for one impossible moment…

he understood…

Beauty
had never been fragile.

It was the strongest thing
Creation
had ever made.

No vows were spoken.

None were needed.

The stars
remembered them.

The sea
recognized them.

The moonlight
already knew
their names.

They did not become
King & Queen…

They became
something older.

The reason Kings
first learned
to protect.

The reason Queens
first believed
their gentleness
could transform the world.

The Lion became
the sanctuary
where her light
could never be extinguished…

The Goddess became
the quiet
where his fire
no longer had
to burn alone.

& somewhere between
his thunder
& her stillness…

they discovered
a love that asked
neither of them
to become less.

Perhaps…

this is why the Sun
still longs
for the Moon…

Why dawn
still chases
the night…

Why every river
spends its life
searching for the sea…

Why every flower
turns its face
toward the light…

Why every soul
aches
for a love
it cannot explain.

Perhaps Creation
has never been telling us
the story of the Lion…

or the Goddess…

Perhaps it has always been
trying to remind us…

that before
we were flesh…

before
we were names…

before
we were time…

we were a song…

still echoing
through the heart
of the Universe.

& maybe…

every lifetime…

every joy…

every sorrow…

every impossible meeting…

every love
that feels older
than memory…

is simply Creation…

teaching us
how to find
our way…

home.

♾️❤️‍🔥

08/04/2026

The most common defense I hear from men in the therapy room is this: "But I do everything she asks. I’m a good husband."

And they are confused when this "goodness" is met with their partner’s rage, or worse - her cold, exhausted indifference.

Here is the systemic truth: Compliance is not Connection.

When you wait to be told what needs to be done - when you wait for the trash to be pointed out, or the dinner to be planned, or the emotional temperature of the house to be read - you are not acting as a Partner. You are acting as a Subordinate.

In Jungian terms, you are collapsing into the Puer (Boy) archetype, forcing her into the Mother archetype.

This dynamic destroys Eros. It kills desire. Because a woman cannot sexually desire a man she feels responsible for managing.

Understand what you are doing to her nervous system. When a partner has to hold the cognitive architecture of the entire household, her brain remains in a state of hyper-vigilance. She is constantly scanning for threats (or uncompleted tasks) because she knows you are not.

She is locked in Sympathetic Activation (Fight/Flight). She cannot down-regulate. She cannot soften. She cannot be "fun" or "intimate" because her body is screaming that she is the only adult in the room.

The Mature Masculine does not seek to "help." He seeks to provide Containment.

Containment means you are attuned to the ecosystem of your relationship.

> You see the chaos before she has to verbalize it.

> You feel the deficit in the home and you move to fill it.

> You take ownership of the shared reality.

This is not about chores. This is about Trust. Trust is not established by doing what you are told. Trust is established when she realizes she can close her eyes, exhale, and know that you are holding the world together.

Stop asking: "What can I do to help?"
Start observing: "Where is the gap, and how do I close it?"

If you want her to step out of her masculine, managing armor, you must give her a container strong enough to surrender into.

- Martin Metzmacher

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