06/29/2026
Reliably, every single time I guide a coaching client inward to help them meet one of the cast of characters that are their emotional parts, everything about them changes within minutes.
Today, with a new client, I got briefed on her recent life story, got a pretty good feeling of her general energy, set the stage for her to be comfortable (which she said several times she was very comfortable, even while jittery.) So after a crash course on her, I gave her a crash course on getting to know her parts.
Since our time was dwindling, the process was only a brief sample, like a slice of cheese on a cracker at the grocery store, but enough for her to get the taste. In those short few minutes that I helped guide her to begin to establish a relationship with her parts, the weather went from wild winds, to tremendous thunder and lightning to sunshine and breezy.
However, more incredible was how her demeanor changed. She stopped twitching around in her seat, stopped rubbing her face with her hands, her eyebrows softened, her eyes softened, her jaw softened.
She was stunned. All she kept saying was how nice she felt.
That’s merely the immediate effect of a sample of the work. The long term effect of really endeavoring to this work in a true and genuine way Is immeasurable, but only in how a person feels emotionally, but also how they feel physically.
Parts work works.
