09/08/2026
I spent a lot of this summer feeling like I wasn't doing enough.
Because of circumstances we hadn't anticipated, we didn't have our son enrolled in summer camps. That meant taking things day by day and week by week arranging playdates, maneuvering my work schedule, trying to be present with him and trying to run a business.
And the guilt came from both directions.
When I worked, I felt guilty I wasn't fully present with my son.
When I spent time with him, I worried about everything I wasn't accomplishing in my business.
There was plenty of advice about how I could manage it better. Create more systems. Find more childcare. Outsource. Get up earlier. Work later. Catch up on weekends.
But eventually I stopped listening to all the noise.
Instead, I asked myself:
What do I, and my family, actually need in this season?
I slowed down my work schedule.
I gave myself permission to be more present with my son.
And I made a plan to increase my work again in September when he returned to school.
That gave me something I hadn't expected: Peace of mind to actually enjoy the summer we were having.
And I've been thinking about how often this same thing happens with our nutrition and wellness.
We're constantly being told what we should be doing.
But your life isn't someone else's life.
Your work schedule matters.
Your family responsibilities matter.
Your health matters.
Your budget matters.
Your energy matters.
What if, instead of assuming you're doing it wrong, you stopped and asked:
What does taking care of myself realistically look like in the life I'm actually living?
Maybe the answer isn't another set of rules.
Maybe it's learning how to adjust your nutrition, routines and expectations to the season you're in.
That's a big part of how I work with women privately and what we'll practice together in The Willow Rhythm.
The Willow Rhythm begins September 13, and enrollment is open through Friday, September 11.
If you've been looking for support without another restrictive plan or complicated routine, I'd love to have you join us.
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