05/05/2026
SOULTIES
In case you don’t understand, a simple explanation would be something or someone that ties its soul to oneself.
Basically the act of I only want to share my entire self and life with you exclusively, or you’re my bestie, and no need for anyone else.
You see after all, the soul is the will of man, the seat of emotions, as well as the passion of man.
Possessing no understanding regarding soul ties causes you to become attached, you won’t understand.
Not being fully aware of the soul tie attribute, you’re now bound, confined, or may be hindering too.
Now should this attachment end, you’ll struggle regarding your emotions, feelings, and the total you.
You’ve shared in the most intimate manner, because you assumed the other participant truly does love me.
Now that this connection has ended, I want my spirit and soul back enabling me to become free.
Understanding, when our souls tied, it was more than a simple interaction, and it was deeper than that.
Perhaps you assumed this was the person of your dreams, and for sure they’ve have your back.
When you experience or go through situations though both have separated and went your own way,
your emotions are yet paying a price, as you struggle to become free from this attachment everyday.
As I mature, I have acceptance, and understand that spirit once had me bound; I too desired to be free.
It’s deliverance I had to obtain, in my efforts to separate my total self from you and allow us to be.
In marriage, a soul ties are acceptable, and necessary, seeing as though this relationship is sacred, between you and me.
A union of necessity, causing us to bond more; we became one in spirit, soul and our physical body.
This is why it’s imperative that we choose not to perform such an emotional, physical, or mental act with just any and everyone.
In our quest to locate love, or either solidified love, understanding soul ties are no joke nor are they fun.
Because when the time comes for us to depart in the flesh, our spirit may not be able to separate or completely be done.
Understanding what once began as social, or something we were doing, passing time filling a void; in all actuality, control has come.
Whenever you come into contact with an individual whom you once were “tied” to and you’ve decided to grow or change,
this is a direct indication they may yet be holding on to one of your body parts you’re yet feeling a little strange.
Then there are those whom you may be attempting to leave, while you’re trying not to contact nor call.
Knowing they aren’t good for you, and having them a part of your world would only cause you to fall.
If you would become real, and access of yourself, and become transparent as well, while simply keeping it real;
The Lord Jesus himself will step in and allow HIS healing power to totally deliver you, reveal and heal.
So many individuals walk around with mental problems, unstable emotions, and just can’t become free;
Or better yet, full of bitterness and resentment while trying to answer the simple question of “why me.”
Soul ties are developed by an attachment we choose to participate within, someone perhaps we’ve called lover or friend.
Whom we choose to share our total selves with, and our deepest secrets, hoping they’ll help us to mend.
And while helping us mend, they will not attempt to manipulate us, nor hurt our spirit further in any way.
This is why we too need to understand the necessity of us praying and forgiving each and every day,
Least we remain enslaved and a casualty to their spirit though they’re disconnected from their total selves.
Perhaps you become attached to another, try to move on, and act by connecting with someone else.
Which only makes the situation worse, difficult or hinder the action of mending or becoming complete?
An action which only worsens things, or hinders regarding your healing, however continues to deplete.
Once an association or connection ends, there is no need to become angry, disgruntled or simply mad.
Though you’re having mixed emotions, unanswered questions, or perhaps are yet feeling sad.
It’ll help to understand, some connections and relationships are only meant for a season.
While others are more stable and secure, strictly covenant, have a more eternal reason.
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