10/14/2026
The Shane Gillis monologue on SNL this past weekend touched on one of the reasons so many women don’t feel comfortable in the gym.
Men.
I’ve been coaching women for decades and have worked in both public and private gyms. And I’ve seen how often women have to deal with unwanted attention, interrupted workouts, unsolicited advice, mansplaining exercises, and men offering their opinions when all they want to do is get in the gym and work out.
And then there’s what women choose to wear.
Men can work out shirtless, wear tight shorts, or wear short shorts without it becoming a discussion. But when a woman chooses to wear something tight she feels comfortable training in, suddenly, it’s up for debate.
Why?
Women should be able to wear what they feel comfortable in at the gym, at the bar, or at the beach. It’s their body. Their choice.
And no man has the right to police a woman’s clothing or call her a w***e because of what she chooses to wear.
Women don’t owe men modesty to make them comfortable. And they certainly don’t owe them an explanation for what they wear.
❤️ If you agree with me