10/28/2026
The part of meetings I have to travel for that doesn’t make it onto the highlight reel.
As much as I love the opportunity to travel, learn, connect with inspiring people, and bring new ideas back to my work, there’s always a part of me that feels a little torn.
Because while I’m away being a surgeon, a colleague, and a lifelong learner, there’s another part of my life that doesn’t exactly pause when I board a plane or drive up the coast.
There are school assignments, bedtime routines, books that need to be read, lunches to pack, and two little humans who don’t particularly care how inspiring the keynote speaker was. They just want Mom.
And then there’s FaceTime. Equal parts heartfelt family reunion and remote household management.
One minute I’m telling the kids how much I miss them, and the next I’m reminding Dad which books need to be read for school. (Because apparently my maternal responsibilities have excellent Wi-Fi coverage.)
But between the homework reminders and bedtime negotiations are the little moments that matter most. Seeing their faces, hearing about their days, and feeling connected even when we’re miles apart.
Being a working mom means sometimes being exactly where you want to be professionally while wishing you could simultaneously be somewhere else personally.
I’m grateful for a husband who holds down the fort, for technology that makes the distance feel a little smaller, and for children who remind me what all of this is ultimately about.
I want my kids to see a mother who loves her work, pursues her passions, and continues to grow. But I also want them to know that no matter how far I travel, they’re always my favorite people to come home to and their homemade signs.
Because the hardest part of going away isn’t the travel. It’s leaving pieces of your heart at home.