03/26/2025
hello all! Sara here. long post ahead, but the tl;dr is that my dad will be coming home on april 2nd and we have some help needs in the bullet points below
i'm so relieved to announce that after a LOT of back and forth with the doctors and insurance, we my dad is getting extended an extra week. he will definitely be coming home tuesday april 1st, no exceptions, but it's a huge weight off.
just getting an extra afternoon back to continue to prepare the house has made a massive difference.
as some of you know, my cousin, Samuel, has come in from abroad to help with the transition. the two of us worked until nearly 11pm last night and it's truly night and day. i'm exhausted and so is my cousin but the house is in SO much better shape. i feel like i can breathe a bit more and make intentional choices instead of the frantic chaotic scrambling that we had before.
special thanks to Caitlin Sullivan for setting up the meal train, Mary Beth Wiltshire for bringing Sami and i food last night when we were about to crash from exhaustion. and another sincere thank you to every every every every single soul who have signed up or donated money for food.
my mom is going to be up at the hospital for the rest of the week and she has the car, so i'm going to put in some requests for help if anyone is able:
- grocery run: if anyone is willing to take us to the store or could pick up an online grocery order and drop it off at our home 3 mins from the Food Lion on Hawkins, that'd be amazing. we're currently out of all pretty much all basic essentials including milk, eggs, bread, cheese, butter, and deli ham
-printer: i have a few important forms that we need copies of, one which needs to be printed, signed, and mailed out ASAP
-special waste disposal: this is more long term, but we have some garbage that includes electronic waste, chemicals (wood paints, sprays, and other stuff from my dad's garage), and even some old lawn mowers my dad would cannibalize for parts but now are taking up too much space in our backyard
-clothes: if anyone has clothes they want to donate (especially scrubs or workout gear) in sizes ranging from XL to 2XL and can drop them off, that would be a huge help
this extension of stay was a prayer answered. God is so good. all of the time. thank you for supporting us ❤️