08/28/2026
📚 **Currently recommending:
Desire by Jay Stringer**
So many of us have been taught to distrust our desires—to dismiss them, judge them, or believe they make us "too much."
But what if our desires are actually invitations?
Invitations to understand ourselves more deeply.
Invitations to notice where we've experienced loss, disconnection, or unmet needs.
Invitations to move toward the relationships, purpose, and wholeness we were created for.
One of the reasons I appreciate Jay Stringer's work is that he approaches desire with curiosity rather than shame. Instead of asking, *"What's wrong with me?"* he encourages us to ask, *"What is this longing trying to tell me?"*
As a therapist, I've found that healing rarely comes from criticizing ourselves into change. It comes from slowing down, listening with compassion, and allowing our stories to be understood.
Whether you're on your own healing journey or simply wanting to understand yourself more deeply, this is a book worth adding to your reading list.
✨ Curiosity creates space for healing.
Have you read it? I'd love to hear what resonated with you.