06/21/2026
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Grandfathers Waiting in the Wings
Since it's Father's Day, I thought I'd write a little something for all the grandfathers out there. The Pop-Pops, Grandpas, Poppys, Papas, and Grampys
Whether you're a long-distance grandfather or live just down the street, you play an important role in your grandchild's life.
When I think of grandfathers, I think of my own dad.
He wasn't the kind of grandfather who sat quietly on the sidelines. He embraced the role with enthusiasm, humor, and a generous heart.
My dad had a bit of a belly, and when my daughter was little, she'd poke it and say, "Grandpa, you have such a big muscle!"
Without missing a beat, he'd puff up with pride and agree.
Then there was the mystery of Grandpa's missing hair.
The kids would ask, "Grandpa, where did your hair go?"
He'd point to a random man across the room and say, "See that guy over there? He took Grandpa's hair."
The children found this completely believable.
One of his greatest performances involved his upper denture. At some point during a family meal, he'd casually pop his bridge into his drinking glass. The kids would howl with laughter every single time.
They adored him.
But what I remember most wasn't the jokes.
It was his presence.
He was always there when needed. Generous with his time. Generous with his love. Generous with his support.
Like many grandfathers, he seemed content to wait in the wings while the parents took center stage. Yet somehow, when you look back on childhood, you realize he wasn't standing in the wings at all.
He was part of the story.
Grandfathers may not always be the loudest voice in the room. They may not be the ones scheduling pediatric appointments or packing diaper bags.
But they teach, encourage, entertain, support, and love in ways that leave a lasting imprint on a child's heart.
And often, they do it without asking for recognition.
So today, on Father's Day, I'd like to celebrate the grandfathers.
The ones who tell the same jokes over and over.
The ones who sneak an extra cookie when nobody's looking.
The ones who cheer from the sidelines, show up when called, and love their grandchildren with their whole hearts.
Thank you for all the ways you help shape the next generation.
Happy Father's Day to all the grandfathers waiting in the wings.