09/02/2026
Nearly two years ago after a routine haircut and color my scalp broke out in hives.
For the next 16 months my hairdresser and I made process modifications, tried different products, eliminated potential irritants.
We never considered that there was an underlying imbalance brewing that would eventually result in complete hair loss (I mean, that would have been a STRETCH at best).
Even when the first bald spot appeared in February of this year, it was attributable to stress, perimenopause, and medication changes.
Under the care of professionals, and using data specific to my chemistry, I made some fundamental changes to improve my gut health, cleanse my liver, and rebalance my thyroid.
Shaving what was left of my hair just about 8 weeks after it started falling out felt terrifying and embarrassing, but it was also the beginning of a chapter of empowerment.
Taking my wigs off for good in early July felt REALLY scary but liberating.
Posting publicly about my hair loss journey in early August felt like a new level of freedom that I didn’t know I needed.
And then having people reach out, who were experiencing unexplained hair loss and looking for resources, felt purposeful.
My hair is growing back, thicker than it’s been in a very long time. But the unusual grey and black pattern still didn’t feel like me.
Yesterday at my hair appointment I went bleach blonde. I have a bleach blonde pixie, something I never would have tried. But I freaking love it. It is exhilarating to do something whimsical and intentional with my hair.
When I woke up this morning, after putting my scalp through more processing than I ever have, there was no itching, no hives, no reaction at all.
My body had been trying to tell me something was out of balance for a long time, and I wasn’t listening.
I’m not saying that if your scalp is itchy you’re about to go bald – mine is a very extreme, obscure case and unique to me. I am just being public about my journey and here to share resources for anyone who needs support.
