09/21/2026
with Shine Forward With Dravet
Rare disease parenting changes you.
Not just emotionally, but physically, spiritually. It changes the way your nervous system moves through the world. It changes the way you sleep, the way you think, the way you prepare for emergencies, the way you define strength.
For a long time, I thought grace meant handling everything perfectly. Quietly.
But Dravet syndrome humbled me in ways I never could have imagined.
Because somewhere between the seizures, medications, emergency room visits, side effects, sleepless nights, therapies, feeding struggles, equipment, trauma, and constant hypervigilance… you realize perfection was never the goal. Survival was.
And eventually, if you’re lucky, survival slowly turns into adaptation. Into resilience. Into learning how to offer yourself compassion for the moments you couldn’t hold every plate in the air.
One of the hardest parts of this journey has been the constant learning and unlearning that comes with raising a child with a rare disease. Learning medical language you never wanted to know. Learning how to advocate. Learning how to stay calm in emergencies.
And unlearning the idea that strength means carrying all of it alone.
If you’re a newly diagnosed parent reading this: you are not failing because this feels overwhelming. This life IS overwhelming sometimes.
And there is grace in surviving it anyway.