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AnswersforAshton Searching for answers behind Ashtons unexplained ability to grow and ongoing GI struggles.

Boston, you were worth the trip. ❤️Today we head home, and while we didn’t leave Boston with a diagnosis or all the answ...
10/01/2026

Boston, you were worth the trip. ❤️

Today we head home, and while we didn’t leave Boston with a diagnosis or all the answers, we left with something that has been just as important to us — fresh eyes, a team, and a plan.

Ashton was seen by multiple specialists through Boston Children’s Pediatric Diagnostic Program, a program specifically built for complex cases like his. And honestly, we heard exactly what we already know:

He is a puzzle.

Which, of course, Ashton being Ashton thinks it’s cool because to him that means basically he’s a “shiny” or “rare Pokémon.” So apparently this whole medical journey has just been preparing him for his true calling. 😂❤️

We had bloodwork (never fun!), more conversations, and more pieces of his story looked at from different specialties. His genetics/metabolism team is also working on paperwork for the Undiagnosed Diseases Network (UDN) and another specialized program, so there are still doors being opened.

There are also more GI investigations ahead. They want to repeat some scope work and are looking at a capsule study to get a better look at his small intestine — particularly the lower portion that hasn’t been reachable with previous procedures because of how small and narrow things are. That will likely be coordinated between Boston and Cincinnati depending on which team feels most comfortable performing it.

And maybe the biggest thing we are bringing home with us is this:

For once, an entire team looked at Ashton and agreed that there is more going on than simply “he needs more calories.”

They feel his pancreatic insufficiency may be secondary to something else, rather than necessarily being the entire explanation for everything we’ve been seeing.

We still don’t know what that “something else” is.

And we knew going into this trip that we probably weren’t going to walk out with a neat little answer. Ashton is not an easy case, and we’ve known that for a long time. But having a team whose entire purpose is to take the complicated pieces, put them on the table, and look at the whole child instead of one isolated symptom feels like a really important step.

So we’re coming home tired, emotional, still monitoring, prioritizing his happiness, hopeful… and still searching. ❤️

We don’t know where this road is going yet. But we finally feel like we’re moving forward instead of just going in circles.

One more step closer to understanding our shiny little Pokémon. 💙

Thank you to everyone who has prayed, checked in, followed along, encouraged us, and cheered Ashton on through all of this. We feel every bit of it. This will I’m sure be one of many trips back here but all worth it.

The search continues. And so does he. ❤️

Today’s the day. Boston, here we come. 💙After everything Ashton has been through, we are finally making the long trip to...
09/28/2026

Today’s the day. Boston, here we come. 💙

After everything Ashton has been through, we are finally making the long trip to Boston Children’s Hospital for the appointments we have waited and hoped for for so long.

And honestly… I have ALL the feelings.

I’m excited. I’m nervous. I’m hopeful. I’m scared. I’m exhausted. And I think it’s safe to say we all are carrying a little bit of everything as we head into this next chapter.

We know we aren’t going to walk through those doors and magically have every answer. We know this may be the beginning of another round of questions, testing and waiting.

But this is the start.

The start of having a new team look at Ashton’s story as a whole. A specialized team that looks at the undiagnosed. The start of bringing together everything we’ve learned, everything we’ve ruled out, everything his body has shown us, and hopefully finding some new direction for where we go next.

After months of advocating, searching, questioning, traveling, testing and wondering who can help us put all of these pieces together… we finally get to take this step.

And I am so incredibly proud of Ashton.

He has carried more this year than any kid should have to, yet somehow he continues to be this funny, wild, strong, big-personality kid who just wants to be a kid. 💙

So today we pack our bags, take a deep breath, and head toward Boston. ✈️

We don’t know what this chapter will bring. But we are ready for it.

If you pray, please say an extra prayer for Ashton as we begin this journey. Pray for answers, wisdom for his doctors, strength for him, and peace for all of us through whatever comes next.

And if you don’t pray, send some good thoughts, positive energy and well wishes our way. We will take every bit of it. 🥹💙

Here’s to a new beginning.

Boston, we’re coming for answers...and maybe a lobster roll🦞 💙🔎

💙 We are officially almost month away from Ashton’s appointments at Boston Children’s Hospital, and I’m feeling ALL the ...
08/24/2026

💙 We are officially almost month away from Ashton’s appointments at Boston Children’s Hospital, and I’m feeling ALL the emotions. Excited, hopeful, nervous, overwhelmed… honestly, probably a little bit of everything.

This is a huge step for us in Ashton’s journey, and we’re so grateful that we’re finally getting the opportunity to have another team take a look at the whole picture and hopefully help us figure out where we go from here.

Because of the cost, unfortunately flying isn’t really an option for us. Flights for all three of us are over $2,000 🥴🥴 so we’re going to be making the long drive from Michigan to Boston the day before his appointments. 🚗💙

So I’m turning to all of you because I know someone out there may have some experience with this or helpful tips!

Does anyone have any knowledge of:
🏨 Hotels near Boston Children’s Hospital that are affordable or offer medical/patient rates or just that you’ve stayed at and enjoyed!
🍽️ Any must-know tips for staying in Boston with kids
🗺️ And of course… any fun things we should do while we’re there!

If you have a connection, recommendation, personal experience, or even just a tip you think might help, please send it my way! And if you don’t know of anything, that’s completely okay too. ❤️

As for Ashton… we’ve had a little bump in the road lately. He has dropped back down to 50 lbs, which is the first dip we’ve seen since stopping his overnight feeds about two months ago and transitioning to getting the same calories by mouth. He’s also had some stomach issues and pain over the past month.

At the same time, I have to remind myself that this kid has earned this summer.

After everything he went through this winter and spring — the appointments, procedures, tube, weight struggles, hospital visits and everything that came with it — he has had a very well-deserved summer of just being a 10-year-old boy. ❤️

He’s been able to enjoy being a kid, be active, play, swim, wrestle, play basketball and just have some normalcy without constantly thinking about doctors and tubes.

But now that Boston is getting closer, his anxiety has definitely started creeping back in. He knows another round of appointments is coming, and I can see the worry building.

So we’re going to spend these last few weeks of summer doing as much FUN as we can. Creating memories. Keeping his spirits high. Letting him just be Ashton.

Then we’ll make the drive to Boston and take the next step.

We still don’t know what answers Boston will bring. We don’t know if this will finally give us some clarity or open another chapter of questions.

But we’re going.

And for now, that’s enough. 💙

So if you have Boston tips, hotel recommendations or just something fun we absolutely HAVE to do while we’re there — please drop it below!

We’re going to make the most of this adventure. 🥹💙🚗

Days are flying by and Boston is going to be here before we know it. 👏🏻🫣But we would love some help. 🤍 I’m reaching out ...
07/09/2026

Days are flying by and Boston is going to be here before we know it. 👏🏻🫣

But we would love some help. 🤍 I’m reaching out because I know this community is full of amazing people with connections and experiences we may not know about.

Does anyone know of organizations, foundations, grants, or programs that help families travel for medical care, especially to Boston? Whether it’s assistance with flights, gas, lodging, meals, or other travel expenses, we’d be so grateful for any information.

If you’ve been through something similar, know of a nonprofit, or have any advice on resources we should look into, would you please comment below or send me a private message?

We’ve learned that sometimes the best resources come from families who have walked this road before us.

Thank you for continuing to pray for Ashton, encourage our family, and cheer him on. Every message, every recommendation, and every shared experience means more than you know. 💙

A long overdue update and a week of celebrating our sweet Ashton turning 10 years old. 💙🎉Ten years of the biggest smile,...
07/05/2026

A long overdue update and a week of celebrating our sweet Ashton turning 10 years old. 💙🎉

Ten years of the biggest smile, the kindest heart, and a strength that most adults could only hope to have.

This past year has stretched him in ways no child should have to experience. Endless appointments. Blood draws. Tests. Different foods. Medications. Learning to live with a feeding tube. Tears. Frustration. Fear. So much trial and error.

And yet somehow… he still smiles.

Right now, we’re working on another big milestone—cutting back on his overnight tube feeds and getting those same calories in during the day. We even tried having him drink his formula by mouth instead of through his tube. Unfortunately, it was almost as if his body couldn’t handle it at that speed, and it went right through him.

So we adjust. We try something new. We keep moving forward. We’re trying to figure it out as best we can for him.

Since December He’s gained 6 pounds and is now around the 3rd percentile. 💙💙 To some, six pounds over this amount of time may not seem like much. To us, it’s six pounds that came with countless appointments, sleepless nights, tears, and victories that most people never see. We have hit another plateau for reasons we still don’t understand, but every ounce is hard-earned, and we’re incredibly proud of him.

This week, we had a phone call with the nutrition team in Boston that gave me something I haven’t felt in a very long time…

Validation.

For the first time, someone looked at everything and said, “No… you’re not crazy.”

She agreed that even without his overnight tube feeds, Ashton is eating more than enough calories. On paper, he should be gaining weight. The concern isn’t simply that he needs to eat more. Something is preventing his body from using or absorbing nutrition the way it should.

Those words brought tears to my eyes.

Not because we have answers—we don’t.

But because someone finally acknowledged what we’ve felt all along.

So now… Boston is in our sights. September is creeping up fast!

We’re hopeful. We’re praying. We’re believing that this next step might finally bring us closer to understanding what his incredible little body has been trying to tell us all these years.

Ashton, you don’t know it yet, but you inspire so many people. Your resilience, your determination, and your ability to keep smiling through so much remind us every single day what true courage looks like.

No matter what this next year brings, we’ll be right beside you. Always.

Here’s to years of fighting… and to hoping this is the year we finally get the answers you deserve.

We love you more than words could ever say. 💙🎂

Ashton update 💙We’ve got something to celebrate… Ashton has officially entered the 50 lb club 👏🏻👏🏻 and has been holding ...
04/24/2026

Ashton update 💙

We’ve got something to celebrate… Ashton has officially entered the 50 lb club 👏🏻👏🏻 and has been holding steady between 51–53 lbs!!

After everything his body has been through, seeing that number stay up has been such a big win for us. 🥹 And I will say the other day was the first time I looked at him without his shirt off and felt like I could really see a difference, not every rib was so prominent and his collar bones didn’t seem to be sticking out as much. 🤞🏻

He’s been staying active too — swimming twice a week. His endurance has definitely taken a hit, which is hard to watch, but we’re hopeful this is just part of the rebuilding phase and that we’ll start to see muscle begin to grow with time. He loves swimming though so it’s great!

He’s also found a new love for basketball… and let me just say, the confidence is STRONG 😂 He will absolutely smack talk you while playing, by his own rules, so consider yourself warned. But honestly, I love seeing that spark and confidence in him.

We’re adding weekend workouts at Syphus Gym with some of his wrestling buddies, and we’re really hopeful this extra push will help us see if his body can not only hold onto weight, but start building muscle too.

And a huge win behind the scenes — tube placements have become so much smoother. What used to be really hard has turned into something we can manage without the same stress, and I’m so thankful for that for however long it lasts!

We don’t see doctors again until the end of next month, so right now we’re focusing on celebrating every step forward along the way.

He’s been feeling okay overall. He still has moments where he gets angry about everything he has to do somedays — and honestly, that’s understandable. We’re working on letting him express those feelings in safe, constructive ways while continuing to support him through it all.

As we look ahead, our biggest hope and prayer is that as we slowly begin to wean from the tube, his body continues not only to maintain but to keep gaining — and that we start to see real muscle build. 💪🏻 That will be the moment that helps tell us whether we’re truly turning a corner… or if this journey is going to require a little more time and patience as answers are looked for.

Thank you to everyone who continues to follow, check in, and support Ashton. We feel it more than you know 💙💙💙

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