07/26/2026
Sometimes birth doesn’t always go as planned.
We can do all the right things, take all the right classes, supplements, surrender and pray, and still we can be met with outcomes beyond what we planned for, or even considered possible.
I don’t consider trusting birth to be centered on when things go right.
I think often we think if we just trust birth enough, trust ourselves enough, then everything will go well!
And even though most of the time it does, becuase when we trust we allow and when we allow things can flow freely and uninterrupted.
But when things don’t go well, it’s not becuase we didn’t trust birth or trust enough.
I am learning that to truly trust means to allow Life to move through you as it is meant to.
What is life asking of you? Can you listen? Can you allow it without resisting it or trying to make it different?
Sometimes trusting birth, becomes trusting what is trying to move through this mother and baby.
We don’t always get to know why something happens a certain way, we just get to accept it or not.
What is Birth asking of you?
We each get to be co-creators in this Life, but not sole creators.
One of the hardest things as a midwife is to accept a birth journey that is hard and undesirable. To hold space for a purpose that is beyond myself and bigger than what I can bring to it.
We shouldn’t stop doing all the right things, because its not just about when things go right that those things served us, but they will serve us even more when things go unplanned.
Our capacity to meet our edge, and our birth journeys no matter the outcome, with resilience and growth, depends entirely on how we prepared.
So don’t prepare just for things to go well, prepare in order to accept all of Life and how it is wanting to move through you.
Prepare to Trust that your journey however it unfolds is a sacred one, and you are divinely destined and guided to recieve it as so. ✨
And when things don’t go as planned, don’t forget there is much beauty in sacred repair, and that we can reclaim with intention and purpose a rebirthing experience that can still heal the heart ❤️ 🌺