Shades Oasis

08/17/2026

Upcoming brief and extended Pleasure Knowledge workshop! Plus, have you been looking for a q***r POC group to be grown and sexy with? We have curated OUT on the FIRST just for you!!!!

08/06/2026

What happens when kink becomes a pathway to understanding yourself?

B**M is often reduced to whips, restraints, dominance and submission, but beneath the activities are layers of psychology, communication, desire, boundaries, vulnerability, trust and personal power.

Join Clinical & Somatic Sexologist Debra Shade and Mistress Sara Rae for an immersive exploration of B**M & Psychology: Unlocking Self-Awareness Through Power Dynamics.

Together, we’ll move beyond the surface of B**M and examine the person underneath the role.

This workshop explores how self-awareness, emotional insight and personal boundaries can help you better understand, and more safely unlock, your interests in B**M.

Explore the psychology behind B**M, power exchange, and boundaries in this interactive workshop with instructors Debra Shade and Sara Rae.

08/01/2026

Join our Family Dinner Aug 22 @ 6PM at Puddle Jumpers, Tavares FL! Honoring winners & Hall of Fame.

Live entertainment & swag bags! Limited 75 seats. RSVP: [email protected]

07/27/2026

A little gyration in and around the right cavities, can take or****ic pleasure to a whole new level.

07/01/2026

Here is the ticket link to get tickets for the 2026 ASN Award Show.

At which, I will be honored and inducted into their Hall of Fame!! Also, I have been collecting votes as Best Educator and Best Erotic Writer!! If your looking to take a summer trip, Orlando could be it!!

06/29/2026

Hello Friends,
I have an exciting favor to ask!
I have been nominated for TWO awards:
 Best Educator
 Best Erotic Writer
Needless to say, I am honored, thrilled, and currently trying to act far cooler about it than I actually feel.

Over the years, many of you have supported my work as an educator, author, advocate, and champion for pleasure, healing, communication, and sexual wellness. Whether you've attended a workshop, read an article, bought a book, shared a laugh, asked a difficult question, or trusted me with part of your journey, you have been part of this incredible adventure.

Now I need your help.

If my work has ever informed you, inspired you, challenged you, made you think, made you laugh, or helped you embrace a little more curiosity and a little less shame, I would be deeply grateful for your vote.

Please visit: https://www.adultfan.vip/login and cast your vote for:
1. Debra Shade – Best Educator
2. Debra Shade – Best Erotic Writer

And because no great movement was ever built by keeping quiet. Please forward this email to your friends, colleagues, readers, book clubs, fellow pleasure enthusiasts, curious humans, and anyone else who believes that education, storytelling, healing, and pleasure deserve a place at the table.

Every vote matters.

Every share helps.

And every person who joins this effort becomes part of a much larger mission—to create a world where people can learn, heal, connect, and thrive without shame.

Thank you for believing in my work.

Thank you for your support.

And thank you for helping me bring home two shiny new reasons to smile.
With gratitude (and just a little campaigning),

Debra Shade
P.S. If you've ever laughed at one of my stories, learned something from one of my classes, or found yourself saying, "Why didn't anyone teach me this sooner?" ... I'm talking to you.

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06/14/2026

Let's go!!!!! https://www.adultfan.vip/login

06/01/2026

Just the tip...
..of the iceberg.

I'm a finalist for BOTH:
🏆 Best Educator
🏆 Best Erotic Writer

Now I'm asking for a little support from my favorite people.

If I've ever taught you something new, challenged your thinking, made you laugh, helped your relationship, or helped you feel a little less alone...

I'd love your vote.

Drop a ❤️ when you've voted and tell me:

What's the most valuable thing you've learned from me?

(Keep it Facebook appropriate-ish.)

Voting is a fundemental right and you can express your self by voting for your favorites in the ASN Awards.

03/14/2026

Power Outage at Shades Oasis

Unfortunately, the wind has knocked out power at Shades Oasis, along with many other areas. We are currently without electricity and, because of this, we have to cancel tonight’s event.

We will be rescheduling for next weekend 3/21. If you are unable to attend next week, we will happily send you a coupon code to use for the next Littles Night.

We truly wish this wasn’t the case, but it’s unfortunately out of our control. Thank you for your understanding and support.

02/15/2026

A must visit destination! This gallery has art by super talented artist, live music, poetry, signings you name it.

Visit and host your next brilliant idea surrounded by art. https://share.google/nS7L9ylGnkm7rnuOi

Open every Saturday!
Our new library is officially open, and if you want to get your art on, we might have some tables set up.