09/11/2026
"Have you tried losing weight?" π
I know this is a skit. It's still hard for me to watch, because the humor is coming from a real place. The reason it's funny is that so many people have sat in that chair and heard exactly that. It lands because it's true.
𦴠What that pain can actually mean
Pain that starts in the shoulder and travels down the arm is often coming from the neck. A pinched nerve up there can send pain, tingling, or weakness all the way down. Your shoulder might be fine.
βοΈ Where weight fits in
Weight can matter for the knees, the hips, the low back. Joints that carry you all day. A nerve in your neck doesn't care what the scale says, and telling someone to lose 30 pounds for a radiating arm pain skips the whole exam.
π©Ί What should have happened instead
Questions about where it starts and where it travels. A look at your neck, not just your shoulder. Maybe imaging. Then a plan based on the structure causing it.
Why this matters. If your pain has been handed back to you as "lose weight" more than once, you might not have been diagnosed yet. You've been dismissed.
Follow along for more on what your pain is telling you. If you're in the South Florida area, use the link in our bio to book.
Elite Relief MD | Dr. Kelly DeSouza, MD | Double board-certified interventional pain management | Davie, FL | Serving South Florida